I am on several and have been booted from a few as well. It really depends on the moderation. I have recently joined with several other Catholics on one in boycottting that forum because of the vitriol that they spout and the way they choose to punish Catholic posters and ignore the digs and jabs of non-Catholics. One of the worst offenders is the site admin. It’s pretty rough. They even have a section set side for Catholics that wes cannot even post in. After several months of doing the best we could, the boycot seems the only decent answer. Some of their people have shown up here and at another Catholic forum that I’m on, but I don’t think any of us will go back.
There are some decent ones out there and SinginBeauty’s has the potential to be a good one as it “grows up”. SB knows what she’s talking about and what she wants to avoid.
Here at CAF, I think the Mods & Admins to a grand job alltogether and that most of us know when we step over the line that they will be there to call us to account for a lack of charity or whatever, and it really doesn’t matter here if you are Catholic or not. If you break those
Forum Rules and they get wind of it from a bad post report or their regular wanderings through the forums it doesn’t matter where you go to church you can find yourself “dealt with”.
One thing that I often have to remind myself is that I am not “morally bound” to enter any forum or thread and participate. There are enough sincere seeking people in this world that we can always find a soul who wants what we have to share if we just open our eyes, right? If someone is really “off the chain” as to the things that they say about the Catholic faith then if ya feel “led of the Spirit” to offer some correct info that is cool, but know when to dust off your sandals and walk away.
Sometimes I think we should put together a list of the most vitriolic anti-Catholic forums so people can avoid them because they are a waste of time.
Most often, I find that the Catholic Forums are the best because that is where the people come who really are serious about asking their questions and discussing it with us. To me, those are the ones that are led by the Holy Spirit to seek the fullness of truth, and the people that we are constantly training to help.
I hope this helps some and I realize that I have rambled like mad. Just remember “In your patience you shall possess your souls.” (Luke 21:19)
Pax vobiscum,