Can someone help me with these two Protestant friends’ objections to Catholicism:
(1) if we pray for a deceased relative, and they are in Heaven, then what is the point? How can we help someone who has died if they have not been faithful in life to Christ?
If they are already in heaven, then they have no need of your prayers. If they are already in hell, then your prayers cannot help them. If they are in Purgatory, then our prayers can assist them in the purification that they are undergoing. Here’s how:
Purgatory and the Treasury of Merits Explained
At death, we are judged by God, and there are only two options: heaven or hell. If you are bound for hell, then that’s pretty much the end of the story. If you are going to heaven, then there are two possibilities: either A) you are going straight to heaven because you are completely without stain or blemish at the moment of your death, or B) you need to take a shower and put on some clean clothes before going to the ball.
Purgatory is the place (or state) in which the cleansing of the temporal effects of sin is accomplished by God. We do nothing here. Remember, the ETERNAL effects of sin are ALREADY dealt with by Jesus’ death and resurrection…only the temporal effects still remain to be cleansed in Purgatory.
Here’s an example from scripture that will relieve your fears:
When David sinned with Bathsheba, a child was conceived. The eternal effect of David’s sin was forgiven by God; the prophet Nathan declared that God had forgiven David. However, the temporal effect of David’s sin remained; the child died despite David’s prayer and fasting for the child.
Here’s an example from real life:
A child breaks a neighbor’s window while playing baseball. The neighbor forgives the child (addressing the eternal effect of the transgression), and the relationship with the neighbor is restored by the child’s repentance. However, the child still has to mow grass to earn the money to pay for the window (addressing the temporal effect of the transgression).
One more thing to blow your mind:
The other kids who were playing can also contribute to the kitty to pay for the window. Similarly, the Church can assist those in Purgatory by applying what is known as the “treasury of merits” to that person’s debt. Since we can do nothing satisfying to God apart from Christ, all of the merits of the saints are, in effect, Christ’s own merits, so we’re not “earning our way into heaven”…we’re simply moving a few “dollars” from one account to another through Him who is able to accomplish all.
Purgatory is a second chance that is not allowed. I have responded that the Church teaches that no prayer is ever wasted. I have struggled to explain Purgatory and have appreciated the CAF tracts on this subject.
This is incorrect. There is no second chance. At death, the person is either destined for heaven or hell with a possible pass through purgatory if it is necessary. More than likely, it it. Please ignore the … in the diagram below…they are necessary for spacing.
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Death
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Hell