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I’m a protestant planning to make his way into the catholic church. Just thought I’d say hi to everyone. I got a question though. Is it hard to practice Catholicism in the house with a family who’s mostly 7th day adventists? My mother is definitely the one to watch out on, but lately she has apologized saying I should visit where I choose to worship God. I’m hoping that’s a good step, although I haven’t told her I’m interested in joining yet and taking the RCIA classes. But overall, I’m wondering what difficulties I might face if I’m the only one practicing in the house. Thanks!
 
Welcome.

Well, things are probably going to be interesting for ahwile. I too am a convert from the Adventist Church. I had the advatage of converting after I was out of my mom’s house. I also attended an Episcopal Church for about four years prior to swimming the Tiber.

My mom didn’t say a whole lot, just a few remarks here and there. It was when I read something that she had written concerning me, somethig about how she and my family were praying that I would " reject the falacies of the Catholic Church" , that I realized that I better learn how to defend my faith.

So my advise to you is to learn as much as you can. Learn what both faiths teach and practice. Learn about the history of the church and read scripture. But most of all pray. Pray that the Holy Spirit will guide you in all things. The best way to show your family that you have let God guide you in your conversion is to let them see God working through you.

And of course this is a great place to go for answers if you get stumped. Feel free to PM me if you need to vent.

Julie
 
I’m a protestant planning to make his way into the catholic church. Just thought I’d say hi to everyone. I got a question though. Is it hard to practice Catholicism in the house with a family who’s mostly 7th day adventists? My mother is definitely the one to watch out on, but lately she has apologized saying I should visit where I choose to worship God. I’m hoping that’s a good step, although I haven’t told her I’m interested in joining yet and taking the RCIA classes. But overall, I’m wondering what difficulties I might face if I’m the only one practicing in the house. Thanks!
Welcome redshock, very happy for you and your decisioin, I will pray for you and many like you. Only those who truly Love the Lord find him, and are willing to put God first in their lives. This sounds like the bravery of a true christian. You will have to sacrafice, and suffer some negativity, but stay the course and walk in love. Yes study up on your church history, especially the old covenant and how Jesus fulfilled the old covenant, and why he is Lord of the Sabbath. When ever in doubt refer to sacred scripture and the early church Fathers, saints and Martyrs that went to their death believing in our Catholic faith.

Stay calm when confronted, and be steady as the Rock, that is who Jesus built his church upon. Walk in love. As you begin your journey, and when you get confrontation, study with those who question your journey and teach them what you are learning, once you answer their accusations and insults, they will either stop attacking you, or want to learn more from you. Use your journey as a reason for looking into Catholicism. You have no fear, you want the truth, and your are searching for it, and God has heard you.

Peace be with you, and may Michael the arch angel defeat and keep at bay all evil that may come against you. God bless you on your journey, we have all had one to get here, you are not alone.
 
I’m a protestant planning to make his way into the catholic church. Just thought I’d say hi to everyone. I got a question though. Is it hard to practice Catholicism in the house with a family who’s mostly 7th day adventists? My mother is definitely the one to watch out on, but lately she has apologized saying I should visit where I choose to worship God. I’m hoping that’s a good step, although I haven’t told her I’m interested in joining yet and taking the RCIA classes. But overall, I’m wondering what difficulties I might face if I’m the only one practicing in the house. Thanks!
For your schedule there is generally a Mass everyday, in every Parish, some every hour of the day. So to let you know this may be helpful with your schedule, please check with your parishes schedules. they are written in the bulletins. You will probably be entering an RCIA program. I am a director of RCIA at our Parish, we are going through the scrutinies during lent, you will learn about these in your RCIA program. If you need anything, dont hesitate to ask me, or just about any Catholic on the forum. We are here for you.
 
If you hit some ruff spots think about Blessed Kateri Tekakwitha, Lily of the Mohawks. After her conversion she was shunned and abused by her family because of her faith. She stayed strong and was a great example of devotion for us all.
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Dominus tecum.
 
Welcome to your journey home 👍
You will find a lot of support and kindness on these forums.
God be with you in your journey
 
I’m a protestant planning to make his way into the catholic church. Just thought I’d say hi to everyone. I got a question though. Is it hard to practice Catholicism in the house with a family who’s mostly 7th day adventists? My mother is definitely the one to watch out on, but lately she has apologized saying I should visit where I choose to worship God. I’m hoping that’s a good step, although I haven’t told her I’m interested in joining yet and taking the RCIA classes. But overall, I’m wondering what difficulties I might face if I’m the only one practicing in the house. Thanks!
congratulations on finding your journey home!

i hear SDA’s are extremely difficult with Catholics…

i hear the Catholic faith is the most difficult there is… but then again, would God have it any other way? leaving infinite room for growth in holiness…

i have a protestant in the house, and the best i can give is, learn patience. pray, pray, pray… for them, for your own patience. heck, i learned to pray during fights to calm me down. contemplate Jesus’ passion while they “crucify” you.

often, the best and hardest is to say nothing. “i’ve always regretted something i’ve said, but i’ve never regretted biting my tongue.” realize that sometimes there’s nothing you can say that will really help, so just bite your tongue. then maybe, after burning many bridges over and over again, after 5, 6, or 7-hour sessions of debate, you might progress a millimeter forward with them, if you’re lucky.

i guess in the end, do everything God tells you to do and don’t worry about them too much while you learn and grow. just pray fervently for them. it truly works in proportion to how sincerely you do it. you will see miracles happen. God bless!
 
hello I am a Methodist who is also looking to become catholic. I am only 15 and am still trying to find a way to tell my parents!
 
hello I am a Methodist who is also looking to become catholic. I am only 15 and am still trying to find a way to tell my parents!
Welcome Rildir and its truly a blessing you have learnt the truth, light and way at a young age.
Do not be afraid, just pray and be strong. God will give you the strength and courage you need to tell your parents. Perhaps you might even plant the seed within them and they may also convert later down the track!
Good luck and we are all here for you, feel free to ask any questions you may have.
God bless you on your path home!
 
hello I am a Methodist who is also looking to become catholic. I am only 15 and am still trying to find a way to tell my parents!
**Do you have an adult mentor, to help you with this? Look into a youth group leader who can help maybe guide you. You want your parents to know, you understand the Methodist faith, so brush up on the Methodist history and doctrine, to show you know Methodist teaching, and why you disagree with it, this may help them understand you, that you are serious about Christianity and Catholicism, and want to learn more. May God enlighten you on your journey and find your way back home.

Peace of the Lord be with you.**
 
hello I am a Methodist who is also looking to become catholic. I am only 15 and am still trying to find a way to tell my parents!
Praise God! i’d say not to do it until you are truly ready. like mentioned, learn about their faith, as well as the Catholic faith. be prepared enough to defend both sides, and know in your heart without hesitation, why the Catholic faith is the correct one. don’t just memorize answers, but be able to explain it even if someone throws a curve ball at you.

yes, join youth groups at the local or any church you can find. definitely attend a Bible study. as you learn, you will also practice the Gospel and grow in faith through the Sacraments.
talk to priests, don’t be afraid of em. find one that you click with. of course, pray, pray, pray deep in your heart for the conversion and understanding of your family.

maybe over time, they’ll start to see little things about you and so you won’t really have to come right out and give them a heart attack. e.g., "is that a Catholic Bible son? hm…
“what is that? a Rosary? why are you counting those beads?”
“why do you have a Crucifix?”
“oh heavens, is that a picture of Mary and baby Jesus on your wall?” 😃

“i’m looking for the Truth, mom.” accept and receive God’s strength and love for what you are doing. God bless!
 
I’m a protestant planning to make his way into the catholic church. Just thought I’d say hi to everyone. I got a question though. Is it hard to practice Catholicism in the house with a family who’s mostly 7th day adventists? My mother is definitely the one to watch out on, but lately she has apologized saying I should visit where I choose to worship God. I’m hoping that’s a good step, although I haven’t told her I’m interested in joining yet and taking the RCIA classes. But overall, I’m wondering what difficulties I might face if I’m the only one practicing in the house. Thanks!
What attracts you to the catholic church? Have you studied their doctrines?
 
Welcome to both of you to this forum. Also. I pray that your journey to the church be only as Difficult as you need it to be. I would suggest not being confrontational with your families. Don’t start telling them they are in the wrong church or any thing along those Lines. God will lead you.
 
imo, the family is THE hardest to evangelize. they can turn into your worst enemy. burning bridges? try nuclear detonation. logic gets thrown completely out the window when emotions get involved. so be fully prepared and confident when you take on this mission!
 
Is it hard to practice Catholicism in the house with a family who’s mostly 7th day adventists?
Oh boy! That is going to be interesting!:eek:
 
Thanks for the feedback.

I heard this from a christian music cd called Derek Webb - The House Show. What he said in here was really amazing. Please do take the time to read it because it sounds like we all face it as believers:

Quote (talking to audience):
“we have a couple more songs. this next song is my own confession, my confessing that because of my unbelief because of the fact that i dont believe the gospel. i dont believe that Christ is really sufficient for me,i dont believe that He will meet all of my needs. i dont i struggle to believe that and you can see it by the way i live, and because i dont believe that i am all too often give in, am convinced or wooed by what some theologians have called “lovers less wild” then Jesus, the great lover of our sins. Other lovers as scripture calls them as well, that would seek to convince us that they can satisfy us that they can safely bear our sin, that we’ll be safe and secure, that they can satisfy us in ways only our Savior can. i think that so often we try to make it our job to make the gospel easier for us to preach and easier for people to hear. in order to not get in trouble and not be confrontational. see heres the truth you just cant preach the gospel and not get in any trouble you just cant do it, as hard as you might try, you can dress it up anyway you want but if youre really rpeaching the gospel your gonna get yourself in trouble i mean youre gonna be in trouble as well.because again the cross is both beautiful and offensive it must be both it is both there is no other gospel for you to preach. so in the ways that we seek to dress it up, or again as tony camoplo puts it its a great way to think about it, if we seek to nueter the gospel, just to rob it of its great offense and therefore its great beauty then its no longer the gospel your preaching to people. were not doing anyone any favors by making the gospel easier to hear, because it ceases to be the gospel. its not safe to boldly preach the gospel. its not. you might as well get to preaching it and just give it a try. i mean our same gospel we are told will literally set mother against daughter, son against father, not bringing peace but a sword, dangerous work that we’re in as believers, perilous work.That we have before us to preach the gospel before us, not only to each other but to the outside world. The unbelieving world. not safe work, safe is not a good not a word that i would really characterize as Christians or Jesus or the gospel…it shouldnt. If it is then it might not be the gospel we’re preaching. And it makes me think about the great work by CS Lewis the lion the witch and the wardrobe. Were these children who find their way through this wordrobe this closet or this closet they go and they find themselves in the other world. this magical world where all these incredible things begin to happen. and they meet this great lion Aslan is His name. hes the Christ figure in the story. and these children as you can imagine when they see this huge lion theyre terribly frightened theyre scared to death. and they know that hes king but they have all these questions and they go to some who live there, who know more of Aslan that they do and they say, you know listen you gotta tell us, we’re frightened by the sight of Aslan the lion. can you tell us is He safe? is He safe? the response that the children recieve is not yes, Hes safe, in fact Hes safe for the whole family, thats not the response. but the response is, No No He’s not safe, but He is good and Hes the King. Jesus folks, He is not safe, He is not managable. Hes a wild Lion. You cannot tame Him, He is not safe, but He is good, He is King, you can trust Him. you can trust that He will provide for you what you need as you go out as you seek to tell people about Him. the gospel that we carry is not safe, it is not, it is not managable, it is not effecient, loving people is not effecient. but the Gospel is good it is true but its not safe. And so this next song offends its author as well it should. cause it wouldnt be the gospel if it didnt. as ive said in my record and is true about this song, it is not for the faint of heart nor is the Gospel. And its a song called wedding dress.”
-Derek Webb
 
If there were too many typos above, I apologize. The web has two of every version. Here’s a better one…

" I confess that because of my unbelief, because of the fact that I don’t believe the Gospel, I don’t believe that Christ is really sufficient for me. I don’t believe that He’ll really meet all my needs, I don’t. I struggle to believe that and you can see it by the way I live. Because I don’t believe that, I all too often give in, am convinced or wooed by what some theologians have called ‘lovers less wild’ than Jesus, the Great Lover of our Souls. ‘Other lovers’ as Scripture calls them as well, that would seek to convince us they can satisfy us, convince us that they can safely bare our sin, that we’ll be safe and secure, that they can satisfy us in ways that in fact only our Savior can.
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        I think that so often we try to make it our job to make the Gospel easier for us to preach and easier for other people to hear, in order to not get into trouble, in order to not be confrontational. Here's the truth, you just can't preach the Gospel and not get into trouble, you just can't do it, as hard as you might try. You can dress it up any way you want, but if you're really preaching the Gospel, you're going to get yourself into trouble. Because the Cross is both beautiful and offensive and it must be both, it is both; there is no other Gospel for you to preach. So, in ways that we seek to dress it up or again as Tony Camoplo puts it its a great way to think about it, if we seek to neuter the Gospel,  just to rob it of its great offense and therefore, its beauty, then it is no longer the Gospel we're preaching. We're not doing anyone any favors by making the Gospel easier to hear, because it ceases to be the Gospel. 

        It's not safe to boldly preach the Gospel, it's not. You might as well just get to preaching it and get in trouble. Our same Gospel that we're told will literally set mother against daughter, son against father, not bringing peace but a sword. Dangerous work that we're in as believers; perilous work that we have to preach the Gospel, not only to each other, but to the outside world, the unbelieving world. It's not safe work. Safe is not a word that I would characterize as Christians or Jesus or the Gospel, it shouldn't. If it is then it might not be the Gospel we're preaching.

        It makes me think about the great work by C. S. Lewis, "The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe," where there are these children who find their way through this wardrobe, or this closet. They go and find themselves in this other world, this magical world where all these incredible things begin to happen. They meet this great lion, Alsan. He's the Christ-figure in the story. These children, as you can imagine, when they see this huge lion are terribly frightened. They know that he's king, but they have all these questions. They go to some who live there, who know more of Aslan than they do. They say, 'listen, you have to tell us, we're frightened by the sight of Aslan the lion, can you tell us, is he safe?' Is He safe? The response that the children recieve is not yes, Hes safe, in fact He's safe for the whole family, thats not the response. But the response is, No No He's not safe, but He is good and He's the King.

        Jesus, folks, He is not safe, He is not manageable. He's a wild Lion, you cannot tame Him. He is not safe, but He is good. He is King. You can trust Him. You can trust that He will provide for you what you need as you go out and you seek to tell people about Him. The Gospel that we carry is not safe. It is not manageable, not efficient, loving people is not efficient, but the Gospel is good. It is true, but it's not safe."
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        I think that so often we try to make it our job to make the Gospel easier for us to preach and easier for other people to hear, in order to not get into trouble, in order to not be confrontational.
it’s a good message he’s giving but i disagree with this initial point.

i think you don’t have to be offensive. you can preach in a way that a person can relate to and understand it. “watering” it down i feel is changing the truth, and you don’t have to do that, but you can feed it to the person in a way they can consume it. in order to do so most effectively, we need to get to know the person and understand their thought processes, world view, and basic personality.

obviously i know we can’t just go out and say, “hey do you know Jesus? no? WELL YOU MUST DIE FOR HIM! HE WAS THE LAMB SLAUGHTERED FOR YOU!”

http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2224/2302099053_41621941e7.jpg

but we can use our intelligence to best preach effectively to each person…
 
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