But I stand firm in my Catholic faith, Can anyone help with this question? Are we brothers in Christ??
Just apologize and tell him you did not express your faith in the best way, then share the teaching of the church as Jon posted above:
818 "However, one cannot charge with the sin of the separation those who at present are born into these communities [that resulted from such separation] and in them are brought up in the faith of Christ, and the Catholic Church accepts them with respect and affection as brothers . . . . All who have been justified by faith in Baptism are incorporated into Christ; they therefore have a right to be called Christians, and with good reason are accepted as brothers in the Lord by the children of the Catholic Church."272
819 "Furthermore, many elements of sanctification and of truth"273 are found outside the visible confines of the Catholic Church: "the written Word of God; the life of grace; faith, hope, and charity, with the other interior gifts of the Holy Spirit, as well as visible elements."274 Christ’s Spirit uses these Churches and ecclesial communities as means of salvation, whose power derives from the fullness of grace and truth that Christ has entrusted to the Catholic Church. All these blessings come from Christ and lead to him,275 and are in themselves calls to "Catholic unity."276
So is he not saved or born again as he says he is? He has told me of personal experiences of God and the Spirit working in his life.
The Apostles taught that we are born from above through water and spirit. If he was validly baptized, the CC considers him thereby born again, and joined to the One Church.
I try to explain the Catholic church but he comes right back and says that Catholic is a denomination because “its the Catholics that gave the church the Catholic name”
It seems to me that this is not a helpful activity. Are you trying to talk him into becoming Catholic? It would probably be better to affirm his discipleship and experience of God.
But, for the record, he is right, Catholics did give the Church the name Catholic. It first appears by the pen of Luke in Acts 9:42, and was in common use by the time the successors of the Apostles wrote 50 years after that.
But to “denominate” means to take one’s name from, and every non Catholic ecclesial community originated with a person who rejected part of the Catholic faith.
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and Ive tried and tried nicely to explain the origin of the word catholic and such but it does not penetrate and its starting to put a separation between us which I don't want to happen because I value his friendship.
Then stop?
Why is this so important to you? Can you just accept what the catechism says that the HS is working in his life, and through his ecclesial community? It is time to examine your own NEED to press this issue when it is obviously divisive.
He feels like I am exlcuding him from the Body - And I told him that I am no one to exclude anyone - he asked what I thought and I told him… but I dont know how to answer his questions without causing more tension…
It does seem that your response was exclusionary, and not entirely consistent with the Catechism. What would happen if you prayed together instead? Read the Fathers?