steveandersen:
not “merely being good” but being good certianly helps
Agreed, but refer to Pope Gregory XVI’s statement above.
steveandersen:
Any numbers to back this up?
I need no more evidence than my entire parish, especially my family and friends. If you have seen better in your experiences, then that’s great. I’ve also seen this among leading Church theologians like Hans Kung, who played a crucial role in Vatican II. Thankfully he’s been excommunicated.
steveandersen:
What do you suggest?
Remember you catch more flies with honey and there is nothing wrong with evangelizing by example.
The many questions posted on this site emphasize that there is a lot of misinformation out there about the church. You’ve seen those posts here “Hi, I’m an (insert religion/non-religion here) I’m all for debate but you people say X but we all know that is wrong and whatever you say won’t change my mind”. If we act like those folks we’ve hurt the cause.
As far as flies and honey, all I have to say is that Jesus talked more about HELL than anyone ever did in the Scriptures. This is something that you don’t hear many priests speaking about. Considering that we are supposed to be Christ-like (especially priests!), I think we should return to the old-school hellfire and brimstone preaching that used to be done. Omitting important Church teachings regarding sin, immorality, purgatory, hell, and “extra ecclesiam nulla salus” is a sin. I’m tired of all the lovey-dovey, handholding, kumbaya-singing nonsense. Jesus didn’t proclaim a Gospel of diversity or tolerance like many do today.
steveandersen:
Does a JW sticking pamphlets in your door intrigue you? Does one of the random protestant posters here make you say, “Hmm maybe we DO worship Mary.” No. clearly those techniques have limited utility.
Pamphlets can be very effective. Maybe that’s why Catholic Answers makes them.

Also, I know Protestants have misconceptions about what the Church teaches, but so do Catholics and that is the point of this thread.
steveandersen:
Similarly, the typical stand up comedian line of “I used to be Catholic but I’m better now” just perpetuates the myth of a dower, scrupulous, guilt ridden people. We need to show joyous happy, well adjusted people and starting off a conversation with it’s our way or the highway isn’t going to get you too far.
Jesus said that it is His way or the highway to hell. This is why the Church holds to this teaching as a dogma. Dogmas are divinely revealed truths.
steveandersen:
BTW Does anyone else find the term “CINO” offensive and dismissive?
Who can say that they are more Catholic than the next guy? How do you know what is in someone’s heart? If you want to spread the faith it doesn’t seem right to start off by driving away those already inside.
“CINO” isn’t offensive to me. It’s CINOs themselves that I find offensive. I never said I could know anyone’s heart. We are not to judge that. We can, however, judge the actions and words of others. In fact, as Christians we are called to do that. To help one another avoid sin and repent. And, I’m not trying to drive anyone away, but rather to arouse awareness to this 2000 year old dogma.
steveandersen:
We shouldn’t be doing like Mother Teresa did? Do I understand you correctly?
Wow, there’s a major assumption here. I’m not bashing Mother or saying that she wasn’t a very holy person. I think that she should be canonized. However, she’s still a human, is she not? She is also not infallible. She lived a very charitable life, but that doesn’t make her a theologian. I’m merely saying that when she claimed that we should encourage Hindus to be good Hindus, etc. that she was not in line with the Church’s teaching. Encouraging someone to continue in an ungodly religion is worse than neglecting to say anything at all.
steveandersen:
I’m confused by your post. You appear to complain about Vatican II, mother Teresa, and the USCCB. Surely those are all Catholic and not in name only.
Vatican II is alright, but I’m not real fond of it. I already addressed Mother Teresa. Finally, I have many reservations about the USCCB. I’m more loyal to Mother Angelica and EWTN than them

. I’ll listen to Rome, not a bunch of liberal, pacifistic, democratic bishops that love getting indults to do absurd things like receive the Blessed Sacrament in the hands or excuse American Catholics from Holy Days of Obligation, but that’s just me.