I grew up evangelical Protestant, in the Conference Baptist denomination. During my first 47 years, I was part of several evangelical Protestant denominations, and I was a good and faithful servant, extremely involved in church life.
I absolutely believed that my denomination was totally correct in all its doctrines.
I knew that my pastors and teachers were sinful even as I was sinful (they told the congregation that they were just sinful people), but I thought that the teachings that they were presenting to us were thoroughly vetted and proven.
The reason I believed they had the “correct” version of Christianity is that they claimed that everything they taught was Biblical. We learned a systematic theology straight out of the Bible–at least, that’s what I thought at the time.
I believed in the absolute truth of basic evangelical Protestantism…until we were thrown out of our Evangelical Free Church.
It was only then that the whole thing sheered apart like a big piece of mica. I could literally see the layers shattering and breaking all around me.
I realized that I could never, ever trust the “church” that I had trusted all my life. They had used the Bible to justify cruel and capricious treatment of me, my husband, and my children, and as a student of the Bible myself, I KNEW that the way they had treated us was NOT Biblical and was NOT Christian. Someone was lying, and it wasn’t me.
I stopped believing in the Bible as the sole authority of a Christian because I had come face to face with the evil that this doctrine fosters. The Bible can be twisted and used to justify any behavior.
I think that, like me, in the last decade or so, a lot of evangelical Christians have experienced something “bad” that has caused them to doubt the “infallibility” of their denomination’s doctrines and leaders. The whole incident with Ted Haggard was quite horrific and upsetting and really made a lot of evangelicals step back and take a cold, hard look at what they believe. Other evangelical leaders have fallen hard, too, although many never make the nightly news as Pastor Haggard did.
My husband and I still receive the denominational magazine from the Christian and Missionary Alliance, an evangelical Protestant denomination. In the last issue, an extremely moving and graphic apology was published. For many years, missionary children were taken from their parents at age 6 and housed many hundreds or even thousands of miles away in boarding schools. Often the house-parents were not trained, and there were incidents of abuse (sexual and otherwise), cruelty, excessive discipline, etc.
Here is a link to that letter of apology:
alliancelife.org/article.php?id=379
The letter makes it clear that these children were and still are DAMAGED by the treatment they received in these boarding schools.
I personally recommend that all Catholics read the letter and remember that it is not just the Catholic Church that had/has some really bad people who mistreat (ed) innocent children.
My point is that when bad things happen in evangelical churches, people question the idea of “infallibility.” And bad things seem to be happening more and more lately, and more and more evangelicals seem to be rejecting the idea of a “perfect” church. No wonder it’s hard to get them to take a look at Catholicism–when they see their own church fall, they can’t imagine that a church that they have always seen as a den of idolatry and drunkenness would be Christ’s True Church. No wonder people decide to just trust themselves and their own personal “Jesus” only.