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My niece (not a Catholic) has to take the Pill because she is incredibly dysphoric perimenstrually. Blackouts, etc. Her mother was the same way.
They have no moral qualms with it because they belong to a moral-theology-free church.
If this was a devout Catholic family, it would still not be a sin, because she is not using the Pill contraceptively. If there are contraceptive powers, well, that is an unintended secondary effect as long as she does not have that intention. If she were married, she and her husband would practice NFP in spite of being on the Pill, to preserve them from adopting an intention of using the Pill contraceptively and incurring the guilt of that sin.
Analogy: a woman has an ectopic pregnancy and surgery is performed to save her life. An unintended secondary consequence of that surgery is that the child is aborted. There is no moral guilt for the woman or her health care team. This is accepted Catholic moral reasoning.
Now, aside from moral issues, I have qualms about my niece because:

They have no moral qualms with it because they belong to a moral-theology-free church.
If this was a devout Catholic family, it would still not be a sin, because she is not using the Pill contraceptively. If there are contraceptive powers, well, that is an unintended secondary effect as long as she does not have that intention. If she were married, she and her husband would practice NFP in spite of being on the Pill, to preserve them from adopting an intention of using the Pill contraceptively and incurring the guilt of that sin.
Analogy: a woman has an ectopic pregnancy and surgery is performed to save her life. An unintended secondary consequence of that surgery is that the child is aborted. There is no moral guilt for the woman or her health care team. This is accepted Catholic moral reasoning.
Now, aside from moral issues, I have qualms about my niece because:
- The Pill is the easy “solution” and it does not actually treat or cure the underlying problem. I’ve mentioned a clinic in Omaha that can work with her in diagnosing and treating the problem–not just medicating away the symptoms. It’s so much easier for a doc just to write a scrip than to do the work necessary to really get at the problem.
- She wants to have a family eventually and I am hoping long-term Pill use does not sterilize her as it has some women.
- She is a female genetic relative to an aunt and grandmother who had ER+/PR+ breast cancer. If she inherited the same potentials, and those became actualized, then the Pill is like gas on a fire to ER+/PR+ breast cancer. It could make an already aggressive and deadly cancer far more aggressive and deadly. Her parents know this information.
- Even if she doesn’t inherit the ER+/PR+ type BrCa potentials, long-term use (5 or more years within a lifetime) is epidemiologically far more dangerous. Women start the Pill young and use it a long time and we’re surprised when the breast cancer epidemic is reaching into younger and younger women? It used to be an old woman’s disease. Hello, we live in a cause and effect world. Her parents know this information.
- She is a teenager so her pre-frontal cortex is not fully developed–the ability to anticipate long-term consequences is one of the last things to develop in maturation. So the desire to kill symptoms now is more compelling than lifetime risks. Or, perhaps she thinks the trade-off is worth it. I can’t speak for her parents’ pre-frontal cortexes and ability to anticipate lifetime risks and long-term consequences. Of course they have compassion for their suffering daughter–perhaps the extreme depths of her misery from her symptoms distracts them judging what’s best in the long term. Any parent hates to see their child suffer.