It’s been my experience that Lutherans are like the chameleon of christianity - we get lumped in with others out of convenience. From one end, we are called pseudo-catholics, holding to meaningless traditions; from the other, we’re the rabblerousers that started all the mess of protestantism and should thus bear responsibility for what the others do. It’s what comes with the territory of occupying the middle ground between Catholicism and evangelical christianity.
I ended up coming to this forum because I was getting back into my faith a couple years back and realized some things about Lutheranism that I was uncomfortable with. I wanted to see what other flavors of christianity had to say about various issues, to see what was right. In fact, for a time, I thought for sure I was swimming the Tiber, and just was trying to figure out how to break it to my wife, who is a committed Lutheran.
I’ve obviously since backed off the ledge, and remain a Lutheran. But that is why I came here initially. Ironically, this place had as much to do with keeping me a Lutheran as anything. I’m not sure the Catholics on this board always fully realize the excellent contingent of Lutherans that frequent these boards. Many Lutherans are not what they/we are, are not sympathetic in the least to learning about our common history and celebrating the traditions where we can agree. It took coming to a Catholic message board to get a sense of purpose in my faith; I now have more of an identity as a Lutheran than I ever had before signing up for CAF.