I agree that people’s invincible ignorance is a factor. Our Church says it is! But we are all called to seek God. We are supposed to learn and discover His will to the best of our abilities (unlike a sport which we can take or leave.). In many areas, there is a Catholic Church every couple of miles, the internet is available, and most people know many Catholics. It’s not as easy as “I’m not going to bother seeeking because I don’t want my life to change.” The information, for many, is easily accessible and of much greater importance than skating.
No one knows where anyone ends up for eternity. I believe in God’s mercy, but I fear for those who have the chance to know the True Faith and reject it.
There are all kinds of churches every couple of miles. Should I feel compelled to stop and visit, or to look up their denominations on the internet, or seek out people from those churches and get to know them? Do YOU do this? Why not? I assume your answer would be because you feel that you have everything in the Catholic Church, so there is no need to study all the Protestant denominations.
You don’t get it, JackieMom. Christians who are not Catholic have ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA that the Catholic Church claims to be the Church that Jesus Christ founded. They have little to no knowledge of church history. They have been taught all of their lives, from infanthood (yes, there are Sunday school classes for 2 years olds in many Protestant churches) a version of church history that does not elevate the Catholic Church.
There is absolutely no reason for most Protestants to question what they have been taught all of their lives, because for the most part, they are happy, contented Christians who dearly love Jesus and love serving Him in some ministry in their church.
They have complete trust in their pastors and teachers because they have spent many hours with these people and know that they are good, decent people who do not practice sin and do not live a double life (good on the outside, evil on the inside). A lot of Catholics make claims that Protestants look good on the outside, but once they get home, they’re involved with all kinds of sins, including drinking alcohol. I agree that most Protestant men (and Catholic men, too) are involved with pornography. But I know with certainty that most Protestants go home and they are exactly who are in church–good, decent, moral, loving, kind, generous, temperate, and HONEST people.
Many many Protestants who walk away from their wonderful churches and all their friends and family do so because…something bad happens in their church.
In my case, it was because our family was thrown out of our Protestant church due to the trumped-up charges of a delusional woman pastor who was jealous of the success that I had in my children’s ministries. (A year after we were ousted, the woman pastor was caught in a lie involving money in the church, and she was fired. Turns out she had a history of this kind of thing.)
After we were thrown out, I stopped trusting my Protestant teachers and all that they had taught me. That lack of trust is what compelled me to look into Catholicism–I believed in Jesus and the Bible (kind of, but no longer in sola Scriptura), and I knew that Christianity was truth thanks to books by men like C.S. Lewis (
Mere Christianity, etc.). But I no longer trusted my church or any church.
The ousting “broke the spell,” so to speak, and allowed me to actually get interested in churches that were not Protestant.
Up until I was cruelly treated by my pastors, I had absolutely no reason whatsoever to go outside of my Protestant church and search for anything else. I thought everything was perfect where I was., just as YOU do, JackieMom.
Of course what this means is that I still have a lot of trust issues, and I have a hard time trusting even the dear priests and bishops, let alone the Catholic laypeople (including those on CAF). In a way, it’s good–the only Person I completely trust is Jesus. So this makes me a very flawed Catholic Christian.