It is sad point. One that expresses only humanity and human understanding of GOD, and a limited human understanding at best.
Peter Kreeft in his CD “7 reasons why everyone should be Catholic” informs us that “if” GOD were to give us (humans) full and complete knowledge of HIS existence, presence, powers, places etc. then we would be forced to love HIM. We would absolutely know, and we would be forced. GOD has never forced anyone, including our first parents, or satan. We all must chose. GOD desire our “faith” and our “love” not our robotic participation. HE gives us just enough to know HIM, believe in HIM and love HIM, but HE does not give us so much that we cannot say “no” to HIM, if that is our desire.
However the choice needs to be formed with a right conscience, which means with knowledge and learning so that we can understand. The Bible, which has been declared inspired by GOD and true, tells us of the place where the souls perished before Jesus died for our sins, it was refered as “the bossom of Abraham”.
So the first point is that there is another “place” besides heaven and hell.
Also in the Bible, which is the inspired word of God, we have very clear examples of the beggar and the rich man, with one being in hell and the other “in the bosom of Abraham”.
So the second point is that GOD has made a hell. Go to Borders and get the book “23 minutes in Hell”.
In the early 20th century in the community of FATIMA, Portugal, the Virgin Mary came to visit 3 children. This has been declared as an actual occurence and visit of the Virgin Mary by the Catholic Church after investigations and research. Also there was an awesome miracle at Her last visit, which was witnessed by hundreds, many of which were atheistic but wrote the truth. During one of her visits, She showed the children “hell”, which they described as a burning pit, with human forms floating around as embers in a fire. It was on this visit by the Virgin Mary that She instructed the children to add to their rosary the following prayer as requested by GOD
Oh my JESUS, forgive us our sins, and save us from the FIRES OF HELL, lead all souls into heaven, especially those most in need of THY mercy
So the fourth point is that JESUS wants us to remember there is a hell, and HE wants us to avoid it at all costs. We are rapidly convincing ourselves otherwise. And that is the sad point made above. We cannot fully understand all that GOD is. We must walk in faith and trust in HIS mercy. The faith we must walk in, must be formed in our hearts and minds through our efforts to learn as much as we can. We cannot stay in our ignorance and reject the true GOD, for the “god” we have created in our minds, based upon what we as humans think is fair or not. We owe everything to GOD, every single breath, GOD owes us nothing.
Yes, you can go to another “doctor”, but JESUS already made that request of the original 12 apostles, when after teaching the truth of HIS presence in the bread and wine, 5,000 disciples left HIM, so HE turned to the remaining 12 and asked, “Are you going to leave ME as well” - paraphrase. And Peter said, “to whom will we go LORD, YOU have the words of eternal life” - paraphrase
So, yes you can leave and look for another “doctor”, and it is with GREAT joy to satan if you do, for in as much as you are already considering GOD the equal of your human nature, by chosing to walk away from HIM, if HE doesn’t fit your human understanding, then satan already has a foot hold on your mind.
Heaven is for perfection. Very few of us will ever be at “perfection” when we die. GOD will purify those souls who have not died in mortal sin, but still have sin upon their souls. In as much as HE and HIS VIRGIN MOTHER have shown us the actual fires of hell, and “the bossom of Abraham” there is another place where those souls will go, and they will be called HOLY for they have been blessed with heaven, when in the fullness of time, our LORD and SAVIOR has purified them in perfection.