Originally posted by YinYangMom
but what I recall is that all are invited to the feast. Some say yes, others say no, or ignore the invitation, others say yes, but take their time getting ready.
Baptism/confirmation is our “Yes”…we are washed in water and given clean clothes to begin our journey to the feast.
We hit the road (life) and along the way we get lost, we fall. Catholics go to the priests to fix them up and get them back on the right road. They cleanse the wounds, use stitches if necessary, set broken bones. No time to shower and do the laundry though, getting lost set us back and we have to get going.
So we finally arrive at the location of the feast/wedding but we’re dissheveled from the journey. We certainly can’t go into the wedding chapel to face the bride and groom looking like this!
Purgatory freshens us up. The scars/blemishes from the healed wounds (temporal effects of sin), and the dust in our hair (venial sins not confessed before our death) are removed completely. How long the process takes depends on how lost we got, how many times we fell, the nature of those falls. But in the end we are as clean as the day we were baptized and finally able to enter that Holy Place to face the Lord.
The good news is we arrived at the location and were let in, instead of having the gates shut on us.