Let’s began by reviewing what Christ Himself tell’s us.
John 3: 5"** Jesus answered, “Truly, truly,** I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God.”
These are the very words of Jesus Himself. They are clear, specific, and apply to all, all the time.
Something we must understand and never forget is that “truth does not have to be believed inorder for it to be the truth.” There are
zillions of examples where the truth is denined, but it still THE TRUTH. Agreed?
If your friend denies the bible, then all I suggest you do is pray daily for her and her children.
So the fact that your friend choses not to accept The Truth, does nothing to validate her position, and nothing to alter what is actually the truth. If she has the oportunity to learn the TRUTH and choses not to, she is cupable for a Grave Sin, if the matter is a “grave matter,” which in this case it definitely is. And it seems clear that you are rightly giving her the opportunity to learn the truth.
Supported by common logic, both the Late Great JP II and Pope benedict XVI, have clearly explained that on any given topic their can be only one single truth. As Benedict say’s: “their can’t be your truth and my truth, or their would be NO TRUTH.”
Clearly she is putting her personal salvation at GRAVE risk, while at the same time making her childrens salvation uncertain.
The official teaching of the RCC, is that a child should be baptized ASAP after birth, to assure their Salvation. We can, and should, trust in God’s Mercy, should an infant die without Baptism; but we can’t know with certitude that the infant in question is actually in heaven. We THINK it is, but do not actually know for sure.
You can, and should judge her relative to her judgements and actions, which seem to be very clear. Please read Mt. 7: 15-20
If you are able to so it with tenderness, charity, and without anger, you are morally obligated to share this information with her. Again, I caution you, if your friend will not accept the bible as God’s Word, and binding on all, then all I suggest you do is pray for her the kids.
If she claims to believe in the bible, began with 2 Tim. 3:16 - 17 "16 All scripture is inspired by God and * profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, 17 that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work.
Then start at the top of this post and proceed. another option, is to cut and paste this post and let her read it from an impartial 3td. party, me. And then just answer her questions.
We never argue our faith. We share it when we are given the opportunty to do so.
:extrahappy: your doing good, God bless you:clapping:
Pat