Great post, kepha1.
He’s actually not that far off.
In purgatory, you are cleansed of the aftereffects of, or any remaining inclinations to sinful desires from your life. You’re going to heaven, definitely, but it’s like being on the front porch, all muddy from playing outside, while God’s attendants take a water hose to you to remove every single bit of mud from everything.
Karl Keating, on
CAL, summed it up nicely for me. Purgatory is like being a child that spilled a glass of milk. We say, “I’m sorry” to the parent, and the parent forgives us. But **someone **has to clean up the mess left behind.
I do believe that the process of purgatory is not totally pleasant. Things worthwhile seldom are.
ScriptureCatholic has some Scriptural references (particularly the famous 1 Corinthians 15 and 2 Maccabees 12 verses that form our doctrine) in case you need them.