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sacristan1
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So the bottom line as I understand it is to obey our Pastor if we wish to serve no matter what. This answers my question as to where the obedience begins and ends and from what you are saying it is with our Pastor. If a sin is committed it is his sin and not ours. So she does not need to go to Confession to confess this sin even though she feels horrible right now and is anguished by thinking she has commited a big sin by doing something she knew was wrong. I will pass this on and hopefully she will feel better about all this and will be able to discuss it with her Pastor and they will be able to resolve this. Perhaps a suggestion would be to purify the cups at the Altar when the Chalice is purified would be a good alternative.