So according to the Cathecism and what you folks have said, I must be held accountable for a sin I did not commit? That on its face makes no sense, you profess it is true. This is why, among other doctrinal reasons, I had to seek the truth away from Catholicism.
First let me state, I am not Catholic, however I am catholic.
Now as to the issue of accountability, I don’t think anyone here has said one is held accountable for not being baptized. From scripture we know that all are born fallen with sinful natures. We know that sin cannot enter heaven and we know that only that sin is cleaned through the grace of God and we know that baptism conveys that grace and cleanses us from sin. We also know that God is infinitely merciful, and how he chooses to deal with the unbaptized is something we cannot know while we are on this earth. Would an infant be held accountable for not being baptized? We hope not, but we cannot say. Same can be said for an adult. The final destination of an unbaptised person is merely our speculation based upon what God has chosen to reveal but we acknowledge the fact that God is the ultimate judge. However because of what we know about sin and our salvation, we put to practice what has been revealed to us and therefore baptize everyone, including infants.
With that being said we have to look at the nature of all the sacraments in the church. Every sacrament has a dual role. The first being a sign, the second a conveyance of grace.
The Eucharist is a sign of our remembering the sacrifice of our Lord, but it also conveys the grace of God.
Penance, is a sign of our repentance and our desire to be reconciled with God, but it also conveys grace because we are absolved of our sins.
Marriage is a sign of a couple’s commitment to one another to live their life as husband and wife, but it also conveys the grace of God to live that life faithfully.
So every sacrament is a sign AND conveys grace.
Let’s look at sacrament of baptism.
In the Jewish faith, circumcision is the ritual that a person underwent when becoming a member of Judaism. A child at his briss, becomes a member of the Jewish church. Circumcision is the sign that that child belongs. For Christians, we know from scripture that circumcision is no longer a requirement to be a member of the Church. Instead baptism is used to bring members in to the church. In scripture we read where entire families were baptized by the apostles. We can speculate that this would have included the infants as well. As Christians (of any denomination) it is baptism that is the sign that the person is a member of the body of Christ.
We also know baptism gives grace through the washing away of sin. Through baptism, we become clean, and acceptable receptacles for the graces that God wishes to bestow on us. This happens to an adult, AND it happens for an infant and requires nothing on either the adults part or on the infants part.
So C(c)atholics all believe in infant baptism because it is a sign that the child is a member of the church and it conveys the grace that comes with having a pure soul.
With that in mind, why would anyone want to exclude a child from being a member of Christ’s church and deny them the graces that God wishes to bestow upon them?