A friar is more involved in society. Living to help others kind of like Jesus. Monks live the more secluded, contemplative life. They fulfill the “In the world but not of it” sort of thing.
Yes I’m active in the youth group.
I have thought about college, but you don’t really need it to be a monk. It builds debt and you can’t leave the world and take a vow of poverty with a debt. It’s against the rules I believe. So I’ve come to the conclusion that it is counterproductive for me and hopes for a backdoor can be written off as worldly concerns.