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JuanFlorencio
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Dear Dan:I’ve tried to move him away from the word “morality” as it seem like quite a generic term to me.
I’ve been focusing on “love” as a specific or defined aspect of morality.
My claim to him is that “love” is objective in that it’s an unwritten inbuilt universal abstract feeling that is understood by everyone equally.
I’ve given examples such as it would be objectively true that a baby objectively & subjectivity loves his mother. We can know that because we all share this inbuilt unspoken knowlage.
I’ve also stated that we can objectively know that a newly formed couple objectively love each other thus abstract for can be quantetive & therefor objective.
I’ve also touched on the other end of the scale by stating that it would be objectively true that a young child who loves his mother would objectively hate the person who kills his mother for no valid reason.
These are verbally quantifyable examples of objective morality
is this making any sense & do you see any problems with this approach
I see that you need to oppose your own thoughts to your friend’s thoughts. I wonder why do you feel such need. I know it is quite a normal practice, but most of the times it proves to be fruitless, unless you are defending someone else. If you engage into a discussion, it is much better if you listen and ask questions, so that you become familiarized with the thoughts of your friend.
Love is a very Big Thing. And as you know, the power of love is pragmatical, not argumentative. Nevertheless, I do not see anything wrong in talking to him about love. What I consider a wrong approach is to be too condescending. Your friend seems to have a small box; and he seems to be saying: “I will not accept anything if it doesn’t fit into it”. Then you try to push Love hard enough to make it fit into his small box. You will lose, Dan; because you are implicitly accepting his rules.
Love is real and is powerful but it is not quantifiable. It does not have to fit into your friends small box.
Why don’t you ask him what does he understand by “objectivity”, and why does he think that he must request it to accept any discourse?
Best regards
JuanFlorencio