Puzzleannie or one of the deacons will be along to correct me where I am wrong or misinformed myself, but here goes:
A sacrament is an outward sign instituted by Christ to give grace.
Confirmation is one of the sacraments of initiation, along with baptism and the Eucharist (First Communion, of what is hopefully many).
Baptism is where the soul is regenerated, brought to life, adopted as a Child of God. Confirmation, or Chrismation as it is called in the Eastern Rite (still Catholics) completes (seals) baptism, and imparts the gifts of the Holy Spirit (Wisdom, Understanding, Counsel, Piety, Fortitude, Knowledge, Fear of the Lord). The Eucharist is union with God through receiving Jesus’ Body and Blood as food. To quote my younger granddaughter, “It looks like bread. But it’s not! It’s Jesus!”
The reason I bring up Chrismation and the Eastern Church: Priests in these rites complete all three sacraments right then for the infant. The baby is baptized (immersed), chrismated, then dressed in white clothes and fed the Eucharist off a spoon (Of course, everybody receives Communion off a spoon there, but I digress).
In the Latin (Roman) Rite, Confirmation was separated from Baptism because the bishop reserved the sacrament to himself. So, he had to do the confirming, not the priest. And when the bishop got around to your parish, that’ s when you were confirmed. If you didn’t get confirmed, you were still baptized, and that is the essential sacrament. Young people did not make their First Communions until they were about 12, which was thought to be an age of discretion.
During the reign of Pius X at the turn of the 20th century, in addition to restoring Gregorian chant, he stated that children as young as 7 could receive the Eucharist. Until recently, children in this country and in Europe used to receive Confirmation as young as 8. In Mexico, because nobody knows when the bishop will be through next time, babies are still confirmed in outlying area.
As time went on, people got creative with Confirmation. They saw Protestants and Jews confirming or bar mitzvah-ing, and felt children of that age should have Confirmation as their “rite of passage” sacrament. Some dioceses raised the Confirmaiton age to as high as 18! Some dioceses stated 7th and 8th grade as the norm. Some want service projects. Some want Mass attendance. All these “hoops” and conditions were attached to the Latin Rite Confirmation, to make it the young person’s “confirming of their own faith”. All these things have little-to-nothing to do with the sacrament.
Is Confirmation necessary for salvation? No. Does it help and complete baptism, and give grace to endure for the Faith? Absolutely. Should children be deprived of it to jump through hoops, use it as a rite pf passage, or so they can "confirm their faith? I don’t think so.
If you’d like to find out more on Confirmation, please look at this web site:
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