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The idea that a person who has not yet received first communion is “unwelcome” :nope: - well - it may be how a person feels - but it’s not entirely accurate. :coolinoff:
People probably do receive the Eucharist who technically shouldn’t (yet) … as presenting oneself in the Communion line and knowing how to acknowledge the Eucharist will likely lead to that person’s receiving it. More likely than a confrontation anyway (even though I - as a Communion Service Leader have*** refrained from*** giving Eucharist to people who obviously don’t know what they’re doing).
The Church is “welcoming” in every other way … and as the OP pointed out, even many Catholics don’t receive Communion at each mass (they’re Catechumens still preparing for their first communion; fast from it due to unconfessed sins; have eaten to close to communion time etc).
A beautiful prayer of unity (and personal reflection) for ALL people who can not then receive Communion … and a nice daily prayer is this one:
catholic.org/prayers/prayer.php?p=35
It is not the SAME as receiving communion to be sure … but if one cannot (yet or then) receive … it is better to turn our thoughts to the Lord than to let Satan whisper "you are not welcome here … " in our ears. Which he will in my opinion.
If one wishes to enter into full communion with the Church - they are welcomed. Full priveleges are not immediate. Why, the apostles themselves did not receive their first communions for three years. Most RCIA programs are much quicker than that.
If a person decides to come thisclose but no closer to becoming a Catholic … that person probably will feel some distance and difference from the worshippers nearby who are.
Since the Church teaches that the Eucharist is substantially more than mere symbolism and remembrance - it is important that people know what they are doing in proclaiming their “Amens” to the “Body of Christ” and “Blood of Christ”.
I have a friend who became Catholic … and during the time of his discernment looked carefully at Catholics receiving the Eucharist he was waiting for. He saw (as we all do … and might be guilty of ourselves) some sloppy, distracted communions being made. But also some reverent ones, the genuiness of which drew him powerfully to receive his sacraments and become a full member of the Church.
It might be possible that a person making a devout and heartfelt “Spiritual Communion” via the above approved prayer (or something like it) might be drawing closer to the Lord than one who distractedly receive the Eucharist and pray not at all thereafter.
The word “Protestant” can be an unfortunate one too. Acceptance of Jesus is much better. And I note that many Catholics have within them their own protests which can get in the way of Relationship ONE.
To our Original Poster: Bless you. Welcome. WELCOME! You are seeking, you will find.
The pearl is of great price … but worth it! And the value of the Eucharist is sublime … more than we could ever pay … so worth humbling ourselves via the fasts (of time, food, and from serious sin) that His Church recommends.
People probably do receive the Eucharist who technically shouldn’t (yet) … as presenting oneself in the Communion line and knowing how to acknowledge the Eucharist will likely lead to that person’s receiving it. More likely than a confrontation anyway (even though I - as a Communion Service Leader have*** refrained from*** giving Eucharist to people who obviously don’t know what they’re doing).
The Church is “welcoming” in every other way … and as the OP pointed out, even many Catholics don’t receive Communion at each mass (they’re Catechumens still preparing for their first communion; fast from it due to unconfessed sins; have eaten to close to communion time etc).
A beautiful prayer of unity (and personal reflection) for ALL people who can not then receive Communion … and a nice daily prayer is this one:
catholic.org/prayers/prayer.php?p=35
My Jesus, I believe that You are in the Blessed Sacrament. I love You above all things, and I long for You in my soul. Since I cannot now receive You sacramentally, come at least spiritually into my heart. As though You have already come, I embrace You and unite myself entirely to You; never permit me to be separated from You.Act of Spiritual Communion
It is not the SAME as receiving communion to be sure … but if one cannot (yet or then) receive … it is better to turn our thoughts to the Lord than to let Satan whisper "you are not welcome here … " in our ears. Which he will in my opinion.
If one wishes to enter into full communion with the Church - they are welcomed. Full priveleges are not immediate. Why, the apostles themselves did not receive their first communions for three years. Most RCIA programs are much quicker than that.
If a person decides to come thisclose but no closer to becoming a Catholic … that person probably will feel some distance and difference from the worshippers nearby who are.
Since the Church teaches that the Eucharist is substantially more than mere symbolism and remembrance - it is important that people know what they are doing in proclaiming their “Amens” to the “Body of Christ” and “Blood of Christ”.
I have a friend who became Catholic … and during the time of his discernment looked carefully at Catholics receiving the Eucharist he was waiting for. He saw (as we all do … and might be guilty of ourselves) some sloppy, distracted communions being made. But also some reverent ones, the genuiness of which drew him powerfully to receive his sacraments and become a full member of the Church.
It might be possible that a person making a devout and heartfelt “Spiritual Communion” via the above approved prayer (or something like it) might be drawing closer to the Lord than one who distractedly receive the Eucharist and pray not at all thereafter.
The word “Protestant” can be an unfortunate one too. Acceptance of Jesus is much better. And I note that many Catholics have within them their own protests which can get in the way of Relationship ONE.
To our Original Poster: Bless you. Welcome. WELCOME! You are seeking, you will find.
The pearl is of great price … but worth it! And the value of the Eucharist is sublime … more than we could ever pay … so worth humbling ourselves via the fasts (of time, food, and from serious sin) that His Church recommends.