well , from my entire discussion with you , i can say that we have commons in our idea about how should people fear God
we just can’t stand in common ground or just we can’t determine the points we are talking about
you think that our only motivation to obey the God is the fearness .
well , it’s not the only motivation for us , their are many types of motivations in our worship
muslims fast in ordinary days although it’s not obligatory ,out of love; most muslims I know pray extra salat to get the scale balance (good deed vs bad deed etc…)

muslims pray extra (salat) in the night although it’s not obligatory out of love; most muslim I know do this in the case of emergency pray, they want something badly

muslims give charity out of love ; of which they believe that their charity will do the balance sheet again!
muslims also dosn’t steal or cheat or lie or commit adultery out of fear ; why need to fear such if you know it is not good for you!

muslims don’t drink alkohol or deal with usury out of fear; Again why out of fear? you know things are not really good for your health, especially if you can’t control your self!

and when muslim feels the blessing of God upon them they pray to him and thank him out of gratitude; yeah we do so for our entire life because we believe that Christ is our saviour!

when he respond to our prayers and bestow his mercy upon us we worship him out of love; of course we also do, but we don’t need a situation and condition to love him…

when we commit a sin , we ask him the forgivness and crying to him out of fear ; we also do, but we also know that we must repent sincerely because we don’t lie on a balance scale

when we read his warners in quran , we feel fear and ask him to save us ; we feel that the message in the bible is not for us to fear God’s judgement, but fear comes from looking at our own failure by distancing ourself from God by the exercise of our own free will.
when we read about his mercy upon believers in quran , we smile and pray to God to be among them ; we believe that we are the one that needs their prayer because we believe that the true believers are already with Him
every warn and every glad tiding are for us , we dosn’t separate them by saying that this verse talking about me and the other dosn’t
that’s why we worship God out of fear and out of love
we trust him when he say " i am the Oft-Forgiving, the Most-Merciful. "
we trust him when he say " My Torment is indeed the most painful torment. "
i intend to make it clear , becuase i feel we repeating our words , and going in circle