Question about oral

[FrenzyJen]

Sex isn’t unitive if she isn’t enjoying it. Laying there humping may be fine and dandy but most women need a little more than that to not become resentful.

 

[FrenzyJen]

Sex isn’t unitive if she isn’t enjoying it.

 

[FrenzyJen]

We have a trigger anyway, his idea and from the first time, so that merely hugging and kissing is merely hugging and kissing. Nothing means sex but sex. And that trigger by association is quite powerful. And that isn’t fiddling around with each other. It is simply kissing each others wrists.

WHAT?? I didn’t read her post all the way through. You must have some sensitive wrists if that gets you going enough. I’m not even physically able to have sex without pain without quite a bit of “fiddling” as she put it. Wow. Really??? Lol!

 

[ATeutonicKnight]

WHAT?? I didn’t read her post all the way through. You must have some sensitive wrists if that gets you going enough. I’m not even physically able to have sex without pain without quite a bit of “fiddling” as she put it. Wow. Really??? Lol!

I’m not focused on the fact that this is all she needs rather than the fact that kissing her wrists gets her sexually excited. I’ve honestly never heard that before.

 

[mwncheesehead]

Again, I must ask you to show me where the Church says oral and manual stimulation are sinful. You can’t. Why? Because the Church has no problem with these things. I also sense that you are a troll and am going to start ignoring every one of your posts if you don’t start responding and answering my questions.

Carmentalis doesn’t answer for her posts…she has just found a few old posts about oral stimulation, condemns it as being sinful across the board, no exceptions, and disappears from the threads. I smell a troll.

 

[ATeutonicKnight]

Carmentalis doesn’t answer for her posts…she has just found a few old posts about oral stimulation, condemns it as being sinful across the board, no exceptions, and disappears from the threads. I smell a troll.

Glad to know we’re on the same page.

 

[Father_of_10]

In this case the man is practicing periodic continence. The wife while nursing is infertile.
Catechism of the Catholic Church 2370 and 2375

If this were the case, my handle would be Father of 3 and not Father of 10.

Carmentalis seems to be getting her theology from Ronald L. Conte Jr. who has a number sites purporting to be a catholic theologian. His teachings reek of Jansenism and are a bit Calvanist. Nowhere on any of his sites have I seen an Imperateur or Nihil Obstat posted.

 

[Falco]

In this case the man is practicing periodic continence. The wife while nursing is infertile.
Catechism of the Catholic Church 2370 and 2375

The wife is LESS likely to conceive, but can still conceive while nursing, as my MIL can vouch, with 2 babies 14 months apart, while producing so much milk she fed other babies as well.

 

[kelvinf]

As for my husband and myself, we have a magnificent happy marriage based on Church teachings and on God’s lead. We didn’t even know these things existed, and now that I do I am disgusted. As Christians, we prefer to cultivate virtue.

Hey,

I wouldn’t have known that such things existed either until I was exposed to bad stuff.

I have been trying to find out how people get to learn about such acts. I think since the sexual revolution, a lot of things have changed. People have started accepting and practicing acts that were considered taboo before. Little children now learn about some of these sexual acts in programmes called sex ed. They learn about acts that are considered “safer” and alternative to intercourse. Through this process, some people grow up to think that such acts are normal.

Other than this, I believe the only other possible way people get to learn about such things is via indecent exposure. But by the very nature of the act, it requires more than knowing about it to ever practice it.

Kudos to you and your husband.

 

[kelvinf]

WHAT?? I didn’t read her post all the way through. You must have some sensitive wrists if that gets you going enough. I’m not even physically able to have sex without pain without quite a bit of “fiddling” as she put it. Wow. Really??? Lol!

I’m not focused on the fact that this is all she needs rather than the fact that kissing her wrists gets her sexually excited. I’ve honestly never heard that before.

I would have thought that everybody knows that what causes sexual arousal in females varies from woman to woman. Holding hands, hugging, kissing, hearing the voice of the husband for instance cause sexual arousal in some women!