Question about praying the Rosary

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So, I’ve been praying the Rosary a few times.

At first, as a new convert, I thought I’d give it a try, since it’s so important in the Catholic Church. Besides, I just happened upon one, in my mother’s study - she is Ortodhox, but a friend gave it to her upon returning from Italy - I asked about it and she said I could have it.

In the parish church I go to Sunday Mass, there is always a group Rosary being prayid before Mass, so I try to get there half an hour early and join in.

As of late, I felt the need to give Mother Mary and the Rosary more importance - my aim is to do it on a daily basis.

However, upon trying to do it “by the book” I came to the realisation that I cannot concentrate, simultaneously, on two things - the Hail Mary and the mystery. I need your help with that.

The way I see it (the way I try to do it) - I always concentrate fully on the Hail Mary, for example, at “blessed is the fruit of thy womb” I try to raise my thoughts to Jesus and how he was born into this world for us, at "pray for us sinners’ I try to remember briefly my sins and to express remorse, I try to put all of my love and apreciation into each “Hail” (I pray in Romanian, and the opening word is “Rejoice” etc. etc.etc. I could concentrate on the mystery and just recite the prayer words, but I feel it would just be empty repetitions.

But, of course, while fully concentrating on the Hail Mary, I cannot meditate on the mystery. So I try to give the mystery a thought, between the Hail Mary’s. Is that ok, or should I strive for meditating on the mystery during the Hail Mary, as well ?
 
We should be meditating during the Hail Mary, but this is one of those things that actually takes practice (or I have found). For the time being, meditating on the words themselves is fine. Eventually you will find your mind dwelling on the mysteries while you say the Hail Mary and they will sort of interweave naturally with each other.

Also, I find it really difficult to meditate on ANYTHING when I am praying a group rosary, but maybe that’s just me.
 
There are many booklets that have scripture to go between each mystery or each individual prayer. I have one that has options for readings between each Hail Mary. This takes longer, but adds a lot to reflect on. I do this sometimes when I have time and the strong desire to really link into the Scriptural parts of the Rosary.
If you want the title, I will have to go find it. Just let me know. If not, just go to the local Catholic Book Store and ask.
 
I agree, praying the Rosary in a group is difficult to meditate. However one sure way is to read the book titled “From the Head to the Heart and Beyond” by Fr. Stephen Valenta. There is a 3 part video that goes with this. the video is hard to come by but it really helped me. Do Not just start reading this or watching the video if unless you complete it. Otherwise it will take longer or just may not help you. Do yourself a favor, watch the videos say one per night in a row.

The video is similar to the book but you know with reading you get a more concise fill.

Good Luck
 
I meditate on the mystery for a minute or two after the Our Father. When I pray the Hail Mary, I meditate on the Hail Mary alone.

There is no right or wrong way to meditate on the mysteries.
 
So, I’ve been praying the Rosary a few times.

At first, as a new convert, I thought I’d give it a try, since it’s so important in the Catholic Church. Besides, I just happened upon one, in my mother’s study - she is Ortodhox, but a friend gave it to her upon returning from Italy - I asked about it and she said I could have it.

In the parish church I go to Sunday Mass, there is always a group Rosary being prayid before Mass, so I try to get there half an hour early and join in.

As of late, I felt the need to give Mother Mary and the Rosary more importance - my aim is to do it on a daily basis.

However, upon trying to do it “by the book” I came to the realisation that I cannot concentrate, simultaneously, on two things - the Hail Mary and the mystery. I need your help with that.

The way I see it (the way I try to do it) - I always concentrate fully on the Hail Mary, for example, at “blessed is the fruit of thy womb” I try to raise my thoughts to Jesus and how he was born into this world for us, at "pray for us sinners’ I try to remember briefly my sins and to express remorse, I try to put all of my love and apreciation into each “Hail” (I pray in Romanian, and the opening word is “Rejoice” etc. etc.etc. I could concentrate on the mystery and just recite the prayer words, but I feel it would just be empty repetitions.

But, of course, while fully concentrating on the Hail Mary, I cannot meditate on the mystery. So I try to give the mystery a thought, between the Hail Mary’s. Is that ok, or should I strive for meditating on the mystery during the Hail Mary, as well ?
Keep in mind…there is no wrong way to pray! Praying the Rosary is not easy if you try to meditate. But I think that perhaps as one person said…meditate on the mystery…then continue with the Hail Mary prayers. However you do it though…keep in mind that there is no wrong way to pray!

Peace my friend and welcome
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The more I got used to praying the rosary the easier it became to meditate on the mystery while the prayers sort of became “background” prayer…

The only thing I can compare it to is similar to “background music”…Not the best of analogies, but that is what it came to me…

Also when I meditate on the mysteries, I do it be visualizing taking a journey on the mystery and place myself and she there…

Make sense???
 
The more I got used to praying the rosary the easier it became to meditate on the mystery while the prayers sort of became “background” prayer…

The only thing I can compare it to is similar to “background music”…Not the best of analogies, but that is what it came to me…

Also when I meditate on the mysteries, I do it be visualizing taking a journey on the mystery and place myself and she there…

Make sense???
That is a very good example. Often how I do it. I just try to picture myself being there as I pray. It’s easier to have mental image while praying than to try to “think” of the mystery.
 
I didn’t really read any of the other posts except the first one so sorry if this has been resolved. :o

Here’s a good site for the Rosary:
rosary-center.org/howto.htm

Each of the Mysteries in blue links to a meditative page. They have 10 sentences; one for each Hail Mary. I read each sentence then say the Hail Mary. It works 🙂

Good luck! 👍
 
However, upon trying to do it “by the book” I came to the realisation that I cannot concentrate, simultaneously, on two things - the Hail Mary and the mystery.
This is, as others have said, something that becomes easier with practice. If it helps, you might try starting out by looking at visual images representing the mysteries.

But though I would encourage you to try, you don’t have to do both the vocal prayers and the meditations. 🙂
I always concentrate fully on the Hail Mary, for example, at “blessed is the fruit of thy womb” I try to raise my thoughts to Jesus and how he was born into this world for us, at "pray for us sinners’ I try to remember briefly my sins and to express remorse, I try to put all of my love and apreciation into each “Hail” (I pray in Romanian, and the opening word is “Rejoice” etc. etc.etc.
Sounds good! Another thing that might help: in some parts of the world, people add words describing the mystery to the Hail Mary while praying the rosary. So it goes something like this: “Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with you. Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb, Jesus, risen from the dead! Holy Mary, mother of God, pray for us sinners…”
I try to give the mystery a thought, between the Hail Mary’s.
That’s good too. 🙂
 
Erethorn, I started with the Rosary the same way. I’ve been praying the Rosary daily for about four months now. It will take time and practice before the words of the Hail Mary are automatic enough so that you can really medidate on the mystery and not have to focus on the words of the prayer itself. But, praying in a group, I think you have the advantage. Don’t worry if you don’t get the words exactly right. Speak in a lower voice so your stumbles won’t worry you. Also, in a group Rosary, I’m concentrating on meditating during the part where the leader prays and everyone else is silent.

I’ve also found meditation easier by bringing up a visual image, rather than thinking in words. The sorrowful mysteries are easy: I bring up a visual image from Passion of the Christ. Lots of prayer books have pictures/artwork of the scenes from the various mysteries; I use those to key my thoughts. I read somewhere that Pope Benedict, when he prays the Rosary, repeats the name of the mystery (silently) before starting each Hail Mary. I do that now, and it keys my visual image.

I’ve found it more difficult leading a group Rosary and meditating well. As a follower, you can mumble, miss words, and even be silent, and nobody will notice. But if you screw up the words while leading, well, it’s not good. But it’s a worthy challenge!
 
Erethorn -
I laughed out loud as I read your question…you sound just like I did! I was worried about the same thing, but the amazing thing is - the Hail Mary and Our Father prayers become just like breathing in the background within a very short period of time. I found myself praying while meditating yesterday and I marveled at how far Mary has brought me in this discipline in such a short period of time. I have only been praying the Rosary for three weeks, and not even every day of that period. Take up the Rosary and pray, Mary will lead you gently to Jesus. Jesus and his loving mother will supply that which you lack. It’s truly amazing.
God bless!
 
Here are some book reviews and reading selections from works about the Rosary:

Garry Wills book “The Rosary” : payingattentiontothesky.com/2009/12/04/book-recommendation-the-rosary-%e2%80%93-garry-wills/

Fr Romano Guardini’s The Rosary of Our Lady: payingattentiontothesky.com/2009/12/03/book-recommendation-the-rosary-of-our-lady-%e2%80%93-romano-guardini/

Selections from John Paul II’s apostolic letter Rosarium Virginis Mariae payingattentiontothesky.com/2009/12/02/reading-selections-from-the-apostolic-letter-rosarium-virginis-mariae-by-pope-john-paul-ii/

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I refer to the wonderful book - The Secret of The Rosary written by Saint Louis De Montfort.
During a holy hour in the Blessed Sacrament chapel I read this : - A lady had been to confession to St. Dominic and he asked her to pray a rosary as a penance. The lady felt she was too busy and had no time for the rosary. She carried out so many other penances that she just had no time for the rosary. She had too many other devotions to partake in. One time while in prayer she fell into ecstasy and had a vision where she appeared before the Judgement throne of the Eternal Father. St. Michael put all her penances and prayers and good works on one balance and all her sins and imperfections on the other. The tray of her good works was greatly outweighed by that of her sins and imperfections. Filled with terror, she cried for mercy imploring Our Lady to help her.
Our Lady took the one and only Rosary the woman had ever said and placed it on the scales. The Rosary was so heavy it weighed more than all her sins as well as the good works. Our Lady reproved her for not following the guidance of St. Dominic. She flew to St. Dominic, knelt at his feet and begged him for forgiveness. She promised to pray the Rosary with deep devotion every day. By this means she rose to christian perfection and went to heaven for eternity. I love this story and can’t express what peace and joy fills my soul when I say my daily rosary. It is a beautiful prayer in honour of the Queen of Heaven.
Can I also recommend the Rosary Novenas to Our Lady. It is a devotion which consists of five decades of the Rosary each day for twenty-seven days in petition; then immediately five decades each day for twenty-seven days in thanksgiving. There is a little timetable on the back page of the book which offers a guide of which mystery should be prayed each day throughout the novena. The petition rosary must be followed by the thanksgiving rosary whether the petition has or has not been granted. The joyful mysteries bind a garland of white roses for Our Lady, mysteries of light - golden roses, Sorrowful mysteries - red roses and the Glorious - full blown white roses tinged with the red of the passion. Look upon each Hail Mary as a rare and beautiful rose which you lay at Mary’s feet. These spiritual roses, bound in a wreath with Spiritual Communions, will be your gift to the Blessed Lady. Special graces will be sent from Our Lady to you. If you would reach the innermost recesses of her heart, lavishly bedeck your wreath with spiritual diamonds - Holy Communions. You will give the Queen of Heaven joy and she will send you such special graces from heaven. I think this is a beautiful devotion.
 
I was not sure how to pray either and wanted to say the rosary daily, and I read on one of the strings on here that you can download Rosary apps to your smartphone. I downloaded the rosary to my Iphone. It lacks the tradition and romance of using an actual rosary, I admit, but I did not know how to say the Rosary so this application has helped me.

It has a picture of a rosary around the perimeter of the screen and in the center it has beautiful images of the mystery. Depending on the day of week, it provides the proper mysteries. It does help me both pray and meditate on the mysteries because as I am saying he prayer, I am looking at the image of the mystery, such as the placing of the crown of thorns on the head of Jesus as an example. As I complete a prayer or series of prayers on the screen, I touch the screen and it moves to the next one. As I work through it in this way, one bead at a time lights up, moving around the rosary as if I were using real beads.

My intention is to use this like prayerful training wheels. Once I have memorized the litany and all of the mysteries, I will invest in a beautiful rosary and have it blessed, but that is something I want to earn by first learning better how to use them.

I hope this will help someone else because when I was trying to find things to read, etc., it was as clear as mud, but this application makes it very easy to understand and follow and permits me to focus on the prayers and intentions rather than whether or not I’m saying them right.
 
Erethorn,

Thanks for posting this question! I’m in the process of converting as well and have been wondering the same thing, so this has been very helpful!

I hope it’s okay to do this but I have another question regarding praying the Rosary…

How do you pray the rosary with a specific intention (i.e. for a sick relative or a relative who is unemployed)? Do you meditate on your intention? State it before and/or after the prayer? Or just keep it in your heart? (I realize God knows my intentions but It’s just something I’ve wondered about a lot)

Hope that makes sense and I’m sorry if it is not allowed to add to another posters question.

PS I also use an iPhone app to pray the rosary. It’s called Rosary Audio and It has helped me tremendously! I highly recommend it.
 
Pls visit the following website
theholyrosary.org/

You’ll get many information such as how to concentrate, how to say the rosary with specific intentions etc…
 
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