The uterus is defect, it can not support other pregnancy and children will never come. Why is necessary to have it if the only thing that can bring to the woman is pain, suffering and death?
Because the uterous is part of the
reproductive good in and of itself. To intentionally act against a
good is immoral and illicit. There is no actual present [physical] pain, suffering, and death resultant from a
potential future pregnancy.
This is not about contraception because the children even if wanted are not able to come anymore. Why should this person be condemned to avoid the wonderful things of a normal sexual life? …it is about the life of the woman absolutely afraid of dying if NFP fails.
As a previous poster sensitively pointed out, it is about taking up one’s cross (which we do not always get to pick) and dying to self (desire and limited understanding) so as to have fellowship and experience eternal life in Christ. It is about casting out fears and walking in the abundant life of faith.
This is unfair, it does not make any sense to me
, I do not understand it at all and I hope the Church will change this horrible burden for many couples only based in some doubted philosophical concepts and logic. I accept it only because of obedience and afraid of the consequences of not doing so.
I hope that you do not miss the opportunity that God is offering you (and your wife) to unite yourself more fully with His suffering and loving will for your marriage and experience life in Christ more abundantly. God desires mature son’s and daughter’s and the way of the cross is the central way to maturing in one’s faith.
Forgive me is this is off the deep end for you, but you may find this helpful to make sense of the cross presented to you in your marriage:
APOSTOLIC LETTER
***SALVIFICI DOLORIS “On the Christian Meaning of Human Suffering” ***
OF THE SUPREME PONTIFF
JOHN PAUL II ~
February 11, 1984
Saint Paul speaks of various sufferings and, in particular, of those in which the first Christians became sharers "for the sake of Christ ". These sufferings enable the recipients of that Letter to share in the work of the Redemption, accomplished through the suffering and death of the Redeemer. *The eloquence of the Cross and death *is, however, completed by *the eloquence of the Resurrection. *Man finds in the Resurrection a completely new light, which helps him to go forward through the thick darkness of humiliations, doubts, hopelessness and persecution. Therefore the Apostle will also write in the Second Letter to the Corinthians: “For *as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so *through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too”(59). Elsewhere he addresses to his recipients words of encouragement: “May the Lord direct your hearts to the love of God and to the steadfastness of Christ”(60). And in the Letter to the Romans **he writes: **“I appeal to you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, *to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, *holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship”(61).
The very participation in Christ’s suffering finds, in these apostolic expressions, as it were a twofold dimension. If one becomes a sharer in the sufferings of Christ, this happens because Christ *has opened his suffering to man, *because he himself in his redemptive suffering has become, in a certain sense, a sharer in all human sufferings. Man, discovering through faith the redemptive suffering of Christ, also discovers in it his own sufferings; he *rediscovers them, through faith, *enriched with a new content and new meaning.
http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/j..._jp-ii_apl_11021984_salvifici-doloris_en.html