I welcome you then, please to present to us something from the Catechism or other official church teaching that states it is not a mortal sin but okay. With all due respect all I have read on this thread are people’s opinions that it is okay to receive, all official church teachings I have read and some that have been linked here state otherwise. So just because you or I don’t understand how something could be a mortal sin doesn’t mean it isn’t.
I am not trying to be a Pharisee, obsessed about rules or constantly checking my watch during Mass. I am trying (and struggling) to be a good Catholic. I love Jesus deeply in the Eucharist and want to receive him worthily and follow the guidelines set forth by the church. I have, on occasion checked my watch at Mass. It’s not an obsession just a check of the time a few minutes before Communion that’s all.
It’s not easy! If I were to set up my own personal religion I could set, bend and interpret any and all rules the way I wanted but I am not a member of my own church I am a member of the Catholic church.
Look, I am the past queen of twisting Catholic church teaching to my liking. I used to believe that women should be priests, that there was nothing wrong with artificial contraception and other things and I still considered myself a good Catholic. Once I was able to embrace the church and ALL she teaches, even when it seemed difficult or even petty only then was I completely free because once you start making your own rules, exceptions and allowances, however small, it can get bad…just sayin’. God bless and thank you for an interesting discussion.
Hi Monicad,
I see you’re very sincere and are asking. I wish I had MORE TIME! Also, there’s a post of yours at the end - later.
I think your questions are very important. We’re all talking here and I wonder if we even really understand what we each mean. I’m being accused of not being a good catholic, breaking the rules, disseminating false doctrine, and the such.
Okay. Why it’s not a mortal sin:
These are the O.P.'s exact words:
just if I accidentally and without thinking picked up and ate a grape or something…
So what is mortal sin?
CCC no. 1855: “Mortal sin destroys charity in the heart of man **by a grave violation **of God’s law; it turns man away from God, who is his ultimate end and his beatitude, by preferring an inferior good to Him.”
CCC no. 1858: "For a sin to be mortal, three conditions must together be met: “Mortal sin is sin whose
object is grave matter and which is also
committed with full knowledge and
deliberate conssent.”
I leave it to you: Was the OP committing a mortal sin by accidentally and without thinking picking up a grape and eating it and the going to receive communion?
Was it a grave matter?
Were the three conditions required to make it a mortal sin present?
To say nothing of the fact that it happened probably at least 40 minutes prior to Mass since I’m sure she wasn’t eating in church.
No one here is trying to create their own church. I just think we could get a bit carried away at times. I’m just saying that we should get away from legalism and try out God’s grace. It works so much better. Try studying the Mosaic Covenant and then study the New Covenant. When you go to receive communion, the Priest just got through saying that This Is The Bread of the New and Everlasting Covenant. What does that mean??
No one here wants to twist church teachings. I know all about freedom:
You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free.
So what is the truth? Jesus frees us from the FEAR of sin. That doesn’t mean we should sin. We also shouldn’t be walking around all day wondering if we’re sinning and worrying that we’ll sin, and terrified of hell. Jesus is there FOR us.
Grace does not mean that you should believe women should be priests or that contraception is okay or abortion or SSM. I fear some posters here may think that this is what it means. Nothing could be further from the truth - because rules are not used to follow Jesus, but Love. Love makes you follow all rules. Remember Jesus two commandments?
Mathew 22:37
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind…And love your neighbor as yourself. All the Law and prophets hang on these two commandments.”
So you see, I am following the rules, but not because I want to follow rules. Jesus said I Have Not Come To Abolish The Law, But To Fulfill It. So the Law is not abolished. But how do we keep the law? By loving God. By remembering His sacrifice for us. By trusting in Him and the sacrifice He made for us, by trustiing that he will not abandon us because we ate some grape some time before communion.
I see you have another post. Will check it later on.
Fran