Question about the importance of Mary's virginity

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Le Cracquere:

WHY would the Catholic interpretation not be “plausible” Le Cracquere?

A marriage without conjugal relations was stated in Scripture (Joseph “knew her not”) concerning BEFORE Jesus was born.

(Nothing is said explicitly about “after Jesus was born”.)

THAT is “plausible” to you at least isn’t it Le Cracquere?

And what about the encounter the Blessed Virgin Mary had with the Archangel Gabriel in Luke 1?

Think about it.

You have a young married woman.

And an angel from Heaven appears to her and tells her she will have a son, etc.

And HOW does she respond?

With this:

“HOW CAN THIS BE??”

This response would NOT make sense for any typical married woman.

Why?

Go through it yourself and it becomes obvious why.

If your newly married sister and her husband and you, were sitting around the kitchen table over a cup of coffee and you told her you think she was going to have a son . . .

. . . . she might reply . . . .

. . . well she might reply a lot of ways.

She might say . . . .

“Great. I’d love to have a son.”

Or she might say . . . .

“No. I think we are going to have a daughter first.”

Or she might say . . . .

“Well I’m really hoping for twins. One of each a boy AND a girl.”

She might reply a lot of ways.

But if you told a newly married woman she was going have a son . . . how WOULDN’T she respond?

She would NOT respond by asking . . . “HOW can this come about?”

She would not respond by asking HOW this could occur . . . . UNLESS . . . .

. . . . UNLESS she had taken a vow of virginity (and her and her husband ALREADY KNEW that and were planning on living out their vow of virginity).

If she had taken such a vow (and it is implicitly evident Mary and Joseph DID take such a vow), the answer . . . .

** . . . . “HOW can this be”?? . . . . **

. . . .makes perfect sense.

The Catholic interpretation in my opinion is the ONLY plausible option that I can think of.
Nor would I call it outright “implausible.” However, one gathers that girls were married off inordinately young by our standards. If an adult man were married to a child, or to a near-child, a waiting period before consummation would seem perfectly sensible–which would make Mary’s question a reasonable one. Is that plausible? At the very least, it doesn’t seem any more strained than the interpretation making Jesus’ half-brothers out to be cousins or some such.

Obviously, immediate consummation isn’t required to make a marriage valid (after all, a wedded couple at their reception are validly married, even if they didn’t dash to a broom closet beforehand!) But seems as if the question should be whether it’s on the table, and whether the marriage is validly “ordered toward” such matters, to borrow a locution from Catholic theology.
 
I’ve always thought Joseph was years older than Mary, more of a father to her than a husband, more her guardian. I’ve even heard he was as elderly as ninety, though I have a hard time believing that. If God designed Mary to stay a virgin, even with her own husband, I feel He would have arranged for her to have a husband years and years older than her rather than around her own age, so neither of them would be “tempted.” Even though they were married, and it wouldn’t have been “wrong” per se. But think of it. A fourteen year old girl with a fortysomething man. Even for that time, I just don’t know. Although it must have been all right, or there would have been gossip and scandal.
 
The oldest Traditions of East and West state Joseph as a widower (from his first wife Salome) that took Mary due to the promptings of the Spirit. He had no relations because he didn’t choose Mary for those reasons in the first place.

This also explains the “brothers and sisters” of the Lord mentioned in the New Testament, since Joseph “her most chaste spouse” is said to have had children from his late wife. This also explains why these children would not have been the one’s to whom Jesus entrusted his mother.

oca.org/saints/lives/2017/12/31/85-holy-righteous-joseph-the-betrothed-along-with-david-the-king-an
Saint Joseph the Betrothed was of the lineage of King David. In his first marriage, he had four sons and two daughters. After he became a widower, Saint Joseph led a life of strict temperance. He was chosen to be the husband and guardian of the Most Holy Theotokos, who had taken a vow of virginity.
An angel told him of the Incarnation of the Son of God through her. Saint Joseph was present when the shepherds and the Magi worshiped the new-born divine Infant. On the orders of the angel, he fled into Egypt with the Mother of God and the Infant Jesus, saving them from the wrath of King Herod. He lived in Egypt with the Virgin Mary and the divine Child, working as a carpenter. Saint Joseph reputedly died at the age of one hundred.
In addition - your “sham” concerns are unwarranted as this was a “natural” marriage, not sacramental (pre-sacramental actually), therefore consummation would not have been necessary for validity.
 
I’ve always thought Joseph was years older than Mary, more of a father to her than a husband, more her guardian. I’ve even heard he was as elderly as ninety, though I have a hard time believing that. If God designed Mary to stay a virgin, even with her own husband, I feel He would have arranged for her to have a husband years and years older than her rather than around her own age, so neither of them would be “tempted.” Even though they were married, and it wouldn’t have been “wrong” per se. But think of it. A fourteen year old girl with a fortysomething man. Even for that time, I just don’t know. Although it must have been all right, or there would have been gossip and scandal.
Mary was born sinless and remained sinless…She would never have been tempted.
 
Why is it so important to Roman Catholicism that Mary remained a virgin her entire life?

I have asked my wife (who is Catholic) and she does not know the answer. This question is not to debate that the Bible indicates she didn’t remain a virgin. I only want to know why it seems, at least from an outsider’s perspective, this is important to Roman Catholicism. Maybe my perception is wrong and it is not that important. Just curious.

God bless
The purity of Mary is an important issue… You’ll recall that as soon as Joseph knew she was pregnant he was thinking of privately putting her away…

Matthew1:19 *Then Joseph her husband, being a just man, and not willing to make her a publick example, was minded to put her away privily.
*

The purity of Mary is mentioned in the Qur’an:

Sura 66:12 And Mary, daughter of 'Imran, whose body was chaste, therefor We breathed therein something of Our Spirit. And she put faith in the words of her Lord and His scriptures, and was of the obedient.
Code:
(The Qur'an (Pickthall tr),
and in the Qur’an 19:30 the women accuse her:

*Then came she with the babe to her people, bearing him. They said, "O
Mary! now hast thou done a strange thing!

O sister of Aaron! Thy father was not a man of wickedness, nor unchaste
thy mother."

And she made a sign to them, pointing towards the babe. They said,
“How shall we speak with him who is in the cradle, an infant?”

It said, "Verily, I am the servant of God; He hath given me the Book,
and He hath made me a prophet;*

Her virginity and the virgin birth were also a “sign”.

*And remember when the angels said, "O Mary! verily hath God chosen thee,
and purified thee, and chosen thee above the women of the worlds!

O Mary! be devout towards thy Lord, and prostrate thyself, and bow down
with those who bow."*
(The Qur'an (Rodwell tr), Sura 3 - The Family of Imran)
 
Thanksf for the blessings drblank. God bless you as well.

I appreciate that it’s *your *question. And I assume wholeheartedly that it was offered in good faith because you were seeking the Catholic position on the doctrine. My point was that the present controversy itself is raised by Protestants against Catholics. The Catholic Church in the East and West, and the Orthodox Churches, all have accepted the doctrine. And the root of the question is indeed one of authority, because, as you and others have already noted, without an authority outside of scripture we will never come to an agreement. You will stick to your relatively new American evangelical interpretation, and Catholics will stick to the ancient interpretation of the majority of Christendom.

As for the history of the doctrine, of course from time to time there were objections by some. But the consistent teaching from the ancient churches was that Mary remained a virgin throughout her life. Those who dissented from the common teaching of these historical churches were just that… *dissenters *from the common teaching.

I also understand that Protestants, for the most part, adhere to the concept of sola scriptura. My comment was not an attack upon that construct. My point was that one can, using the bible alone, support the doctrine of Mary’s perpetual virginity. As you yourself acknowledge, there are even Protestant ecclesial communities (presumably sola scriptura Protestants) who accept the teaching as a doctrine of the faith.

Respectfully, I don’t see how a discussion of Mary’s perpetual virginity gives rise to a concern over idolatry? Priests take a vow of lifelong celibacy, giving up a good (marital union) for a greater good (mirroring the heavenly life where there is no marrying or giving in marriage). We do not worship them or consider them divine for this sacrifice. Again, I think that your perception of the doctrine both reads too much importance into it, and in a sense fails to take seriously the profundity of Mary’s unique situation in salvation history. Her womb was quite literally the doorway through which God entered into creation. In addition to the wealth of biblical authority and the biblical typography previously cited by others so far on this thread, one can make a reasonable assumption that, having given birth to Jesus, the second person of the Trinity, Mary (along with her womb) was consecrated by God, and made holy (i.e. set aside for God alone). Does that make her an idol, or a goddess? Of course not. (Your preconceptions about what Catholics believe may be showing through here.) This makes her the mother of Jesus, a position that is accorded great honor, but never adoration which is due to God alone. Protestants and Catholics both honor the saints who have gone before us, many of the same men and women from church history. There is nothing unbiblical about bestowing honor on men and women of God.

Again, my point is that if there is biblical support for the position on Mary’s perpetual virginity, and nothing in the bible that directly contradicts the position, why do many Protestants hold out on this point with such vigor? Why hold the doctrine out as a controversy except for the fact that the teaching authority of the Catholic Church is the underlying concern. Protestants who abandon the objection would have to impliedly admit that their relatively novel, and historically dissenting, position that Mary had other children after Jesus is wrong, and the historical position of the Catholic Church (and the Orthodox, and the Copts, and the Anglican Church, and the Lutherans, etc. etc.) was correct. And I think that can be a bone in the throat to many bona fide separated Christian brothers and sisters.

Peace,
Robert
I never wanted this thread to be a discussion if Mariology was right or wrong.
I kept my questions to an understanding of the importance to the subject for Catholic/Orthodox. I was only addressing the misconception of the Protestant view.
 
What does disagreements of a Church Doctrine of one or many Catholic Priests have to do with the truth of Church Doctrine?
Your question has nothing to do with this thread. Not going there. I was only correcting a Protestant misconception.
 
I never wanted this thread to be a discussion if Mariology was right or wrong.
I kept my questions to an understanding of the importance to the subject for Catholic/Orthodox. I was only addressing the misconception of the Protestant view.
Fair enough. I hope I’ve added to your understanding even if in some small way. I hope that when you are with a group of Christians who are not Catholic, and you hear some stated misconceptions about the Catholic position on Mary, you will be able to better articulate the Catholic position for their edification.

In other words, I hope you can now see that the relationship between Catholic Christians and Mary is one of deep respect and love, but there is a black line distinction between that relationship, and the relationship of worship/adoration/sacrifice that we have with God alone.

Peace,
Robert
 
Fair enough. I hope I’ve added to your understanding even if in some small way. I hope that when you are with a group of Christians who are not Catholic, and you hear some stated misconceptions about the Catholic position on Mary, you will be able to better articulate the Catholic position for their edification.

In other words, I hope you can now see that the relationship between Catholic Christians and Mary is one of deep respect and love, but there is a black line distinction between that relationship, and the relationship of worship/adoration/sacrifice that we have with God alone.

Peace,
Robert
I will for sure my friend. To be honest, it never comes up with other Protestants. Although about 1/3 of our church comprises of former Catholics, they don’t really speak of it either. I was asking my Catholic wife about it and when she didn’t really know, that aroused my curiosity. Thanks again for everyone’s (name removed by moderator)ut/insight.
 
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