:thumbsup:So too, might their patients.
I am in the final month of a complicated pregnancy. My daughter will be born with serious health conditions. The initial diagnosis was terrifying. My doctor believed she had little chance of living more that a few months. Since then we have been on a roller coaster of emotions and run the gamut of tests to find out what is wrong and what we can do-not because we were considering termination- we never did- but because when our little one is born she will need serous medical care, possibly immediate surgery, and we want the best possible care on hand for her. Even now, with a better prognosis, we expect our daughter will be facing a very difficult childhood with many, many dangerous surgeries.
Who has helped me the most?
My family is very pro-life. They have helped me get to appointments (every week), babysat my older daughter, prayed for me and cleaned my house.
My pastor is amazing. He, pastoring a huge parish, made time to meet with us to advise. He goes out of his way to make sure we know he is thinking about us and praying for us.
My friends have prayed- some with vigils and novenas.
My doctors- I have about half a dozen. I left one behind because he was not pro-choice but pro-abortion. He could not support my decision to carry the baby to term. He has been denounced by the rest, pro-choice all. They have gone miles out of the way to help me understand what will happen, what the baby and I will need and how to get the best care. They even asked if I had named my daughter so they could use her name, rather than more impersonal terms when discussing her prenatal care.
I have been meeting with two (pro-choice) genetic counselors. They have aggressively made sure that I have always had whatever I needed in support of my pregnancy. Thet connected me with the group Isaiah’s Promise. They call the doctors to coordinate visits, so I do not spend my whole life at the hospital. They call me directly with test results so I don’t have to wait. They meet with me and my husband to help us emotionally prepare. They backed my decision to leave the horrible doctor, and they shared my anger. They protect me from questions about termination (well they did early on) by telling the docs beforehand that I was not going to consider it, and they should go forward from that decision. I only had to answer the question once, maybe twice.
I am sick of the false idea that a pro-choice doctor or other medical professional cannot be a fierce advocate for the unborn. In my experience as a frightened pro-life mom, it is wholly unfair.