Thank you all for your comments and recommendations! I just want to share that my dad has appreciated everything & is feeling much more at peace!
Hi Jen,
I have read most of the thread (which is a good one, I might add). I am glad that your father feels better about what he is doing.
I had seen that video by Bishop Barron before, and I really like it, and learned something from the approach of using the Gospel, and especially Jesus’ life and crucifixion, as a foundation upon which to read the rest of scripture.
Given this, I think that there is something to add, to help being able to accept the violence justified in the OT. From the cross, Jesus said “forgive them, for they know not what they do”. What Jesus exemplified in these words was the grace to understand why the crowd was murdering Him. (Note: “understand” means “to stand among”.) Jesus saw that crowd did not know who He was, His intrinsic value (neither His divinity or His humanity). The crowd had also misunderstood His words and ministry, were seeing Jesus as a threat to the establishment, and many other untruths.
So while Bishop Barron is guiding us to use a symbolic approach to addressing the violent acts, I think what the Gospel calls us to do is to prayerfully reflect on what stirs in us when we read about the violence. How do we feel about the perpetrators of violence? If we hold something against them, we are called to forgive, and Jesus calls us to a deeper forgiveness, one where we “stand among” the men as they are killing their enemies.
Parallels can be drawn between the crowd who killed Jesus and the soldiers who destroyed their enemies in the OT, both believed they were doing God’s will.
When I prayerfully “stand among” the warriors and their leaders, I reflect on what would be going on in my own mind as I am doing those horrific acts. First of all, I could be in a state of angry righteousness, in which case the humanity of my enemy is blocked in my mind, I am blind to their value. I could be in a state of despair, where my family is hungry, and I see slaughter and theft of resource as the only means to survive; despair also creates a blindness. My mind is again drawn to see what I am doing as “righteous”, even commanded by God, for it serves my and my families’ very survival. In order to do the violence, though, my mind finds some rationale, some means by which the evil I do is a justified punishment of the other. When my mind is in this mode of punishing, I am blind to the humanity, the value, of the other; this is an automatic phenomenon, it takes prayerful awareness, reflection, and forgiveness to
overcome, to repent from, this aspect of our nature.
So what Jesus does from the cross is to show us the means by which we can overcome our nature, transcend the natural blindness, through understanding and forgiving those who we “hold something against”, those who we resent. One can understand (stand among) the mindset of wanting to punish injustice and also understand and forgive people for seeing such punishment as commanded by God.