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gearhead – many thanks for a long and detailed reply. I appreciate the time you took with the answers.
The most important thing I learned was that you are seeking information about Catholicism to learn about your wife’s faith, and with regard to the issues that brings up in your family. I apologize for misunderstanding your motive. Certainly, what you’re doing is admirable and it should be supported here on CAF.
I was trying to understand your motive because that makes a very big difference in how to approach the discussion. In this case, I will try to give the best replies I can with the hope that it will be useful for you.
So, I don’t think one should demand extraordinary evidence for something that is widely acknowledged and accepted in all cultures. A reasonable amount of evidence should be sufficient – not necessarily to convince someone fully, but to show that faith in God is a reasonable proposal.
If you’d prefer not to get into that here that’s certainly understandable – I’m not asking in order to argue but just to understand your thought process.
Successful prayer is something that requires some preparation and some “skill”. Catholicism provides some very sophisticated spiritual teachings that explain the paths of prayer and the stages of growth in the spiritual life.
So, prayer is not like a vending machine where you put money in and necessarily get a candy bar out. It’s a communication with God and that takes much awareness and guidance and practice over time.
When a child falls down trying to ride a bicycle, is that proof that riding a bike is impossible, or that nobody can possibly do it?
Obviously, we can see people riding bikes. In the same way, we can read about people who have communicated with God through prayer – we can learn from them how to do it and how to evaluate the answers we receive from prayer.
The most important thing I learned was that you are seeking information about Catholicism to learn about your wife’s faith, and with regard to the issues that brings up in your family. I apologize for misunderstanding your motive. Certainly, what you’re doing is admirable and it should be supported here on CAF.
I was trying to understand your motive because that makes a very big difference in how to approach the discussion. In this case, I will try to give the best replies I can with the hope that it will be useful for you.
That is a good point and a good explanation. For myself, the claim that God is acting in the world is not an extraordinary claim at all. I see it so widespread in human history, in every culture on earth, that to me it’s the default position. I’d see materialist atheism, in that case, as the extraordinary claim.However, you have to realize a key difference between our worldviews, and therefore (I assume) in our standards of evidence: if you already accept with certainty that God exists, He is eternal, He has performed miracles in the past as described in the Bible, and He has promised to watch over and protect humanity in future, then it’s not that extraordinary to claim that He is still performing miracles now just as He promised. However, to someone like me, who has yet to accept any of those premises, the claim of a miracle is amazingly extraordinary. And like they say, extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.
So, I don’t think one should demand extraordinary evidence for something that is widely acknowledged and accepted in all cultures. A reasonable amount of evidence should be sufficient – not necessarily to convince someone fully, but to show that faith in God is a reasonable proposal.
Again, the fact that you’re exploring it is impressive and I admire your effort to bring an open mind to the investigation. I’m interested in how you moved from an agnostic position to an atheist, since very often things move in the other direction. I would seem that at one time you considered God as a possiblity but then later you closed that off.Also, though this is a very, very distant possibility at this point, I promised my wife I’d try to keep my mind as open as it could be to becoming Catholic myself. However, since then, my exploration of my own beliefs has led me to label myself an atheist instead of an agnostic as I used to (and more recently simply “humanist”, since I’ve come to feel that my religious beliefs or lack of them shouldn’t be what defines my belief system) and my exploration of what the Church teaches has led me even further away from it than I ever was. So… I’m still trying my best to keep my promise, but I’m not holding my breath.
If you’d prefer not to get into that here that’s certainly understandable – I’m not asking in order to argue but just to understand your thought process.
That is true, but it does not seem likely that God will manifest his presence only to orthodox Catholics. The general belief is that God will work more significantly in the Catholic Faith (more frequently, more obviously or spectacularly) in order to show the truth of Catholicism. But God can use miracles in otherwise false religions in order to draw people to faith in general.…once a person has accepted that the Catholic Church is correct, the mental hurdle to accept Catholic miracles as valid is much smaller than the hurdle involved in accepting, say, Hindu or Pagan miracles. In the one case, the miracle is simply a specific instance of something you already held to be generally true; in the other case, accepting the miracle as true would involve rejecting as false a whole number of ideas you’d already accepted as true with high certainty.
This assumes that all prayers are of equal goodness and merit. It only takes one prayer to be answered in a way that is convincing to the pray-er to be evidence of supernatural power to that person. Millions have that experience. There are thousands of Catholic religious who pray 8 or more hours a day. This is evidence that something is happening for them.This is only evidence of supernatural power if the opposite effect implies the opposite conclusion. When people pray and receive no answer, is this an expression of supernatural impotence?
Successful prayer is something that requires some preparation and some “skill”. Catholicism provides some very sophisticated spiritual teachings that explain the paths of prayer and the stages of growth in the spiritual life.
So, prayer is not like a vending machine where you put money in and necessarily get a candy bar out. It’s a communication with God and that takes much awareness and guidance and practice over time.
When a child falls down trying to ride a bicycle, is that proof that riding a bike is impossible, or that nobody can possibly do it?
Obviously, we can see people riding bikes. In the same way, we can read about people who have communicated with God through prayer – we can learn from them how to do it and how to evaluate the answers we receive from prayer.