Question for Married Men, do you still "make love to your wife"?

[fbl9]

I was just wondering…
My husband and I have been going through a rough patch to to say the least, I have been trying very hard to bring our relationship back to happiness.
Now here is my question: After several years of marriage and a few kids do you still enjoy “making love” to your wife,or have you thrown that part of the equation out?
Last night our 3 very young kids slept over grandma and grandpa’s house. My husband and I went to a very long movie. It was good though. We got home a little before 11pm. We went to bed he turned on some old rerun sitcom and watch for 15 minutes, then he put some comedy on (reached over to touch me a little ) I din’t get up and start doing kinky things for him so within a few minutes he fell asleep.
Every time we have sex he wants me to do certain some what kinky things for him first to get aroused. I don’t mind sometimes but everytime…
I would love for him to be considerate of me for once and turn off the TV or put on some music , be sweet, to me and not ask me to behave like some porno article.
Do all you men do this to your wives???
by the way I have told him exactly what I want!Many, many times, he just tells me I’m being dificult!
Is this to much to ask??? Really?

not as often as i would like to…we have gone from weekly to now over a month since the last time…and it is’t my choice
.i sure like it when my wife would tell me exactly what it is she wants,makes it so much easier to enjoy instead of guessing…
when we started in our relationship one of the first things i did was put her in total control of the marital embrace(when,what,how) though i could suggest but never she had to do what i suggested…back massages i love giving…
no wife is a “toy” for her husband when things become like that then there is something really wrong in the relationship.there is no MUTUAL giving only taking.
i agree with every one else on the TV get it out!!!

 

[ladybugCATHOLIC]

i just want to add…i do think you husband is being selfish and you are not a toy.

it seems like even when we are right, we arer still wrong.
God wants us to grow through all circumnstances … to forgive as we have been forgiven.