There are certain theological issues which would have any RCIA Director raising their eyebrows if I were to tell them my opinion. But there are two other things which remain primary for me; I attend Mass because I like to. As a baptized/confirmed Catholic it would become an obligation. I spent 22 years feeling obligated to a domineering, sabbath-keeping, cult-like church. At this time I don’t care to get that involved with any one organization again, even though the RC experience has been very good up to now.
The other thing is the sign of peace. I have become a very withdrawn and private individual, which suits me fine. The gal who cuts my hair, a lifelong Catholic, told me if I don’t like being spoken to or having my hand shaken, leaving right after the Lord’s Prayer is the best time to slip away and avoid that. It took me two years to work up the courage to attend my first Mass, and another two before I was comfortable shaking the hands of a stranger sitting nearby. I sometimes will stay for that portion, but normally I am gone by the time it happens.
These may not seem like very big obstacles, and if I were seeking truth they would be easily overcome. But I am not looking for truth in religion, but rather variety. Having explored many other aspects of the faith, Catholicism has proven to be the one I like best. As to your question, what would be my next step if I decided differently, it would be to introduce myself to the parish priest and take things from there. That may happen some day, but it is not yet on the visible horizon for me.
-CW