First, and the biggest red flag causing me to avoid Roman Catholicism, is the lack of love coming from many CAF posters.
Interesting. How do you define “love from CAF posters”.
I find it curious that you would make such a decision based on an internet forum,where anyone can log on and pretend to be someone they are not! It cannot be determined that any of the “posters” here really are the persons they represent themselves to be! I can attest that many persons on CAF, Catholic and Non, have made assumptions about me, based on my posts, that are entirely inaccurate.
There is a real lack of the fruits of the spirit on display in what some catholics post here.
Although I can’t argue with you on this point, one of the realities of an internet forum is that people can (and do) misrepresent themselves purposefully. People say and do things in cyberspace that they would NEVER do in real life. I am not excusing people demonstrating a lack of fruit, I am just saying that your approach of making assessments on the souls of others based on what you read on a discussion forum seems somewhat unreasonable.
It’s really odd when they stridently post claims that I know aren’t supported by what the Catholic church teaches.
I think so too, but then, the majority of American Catholics are very poorly catechized. But this is further reinforcement that one should not make a decision of Catholicism based on what you read here.
There is a slavish judgmentalism and adherence to tradition that seems not much different from how the pharisees are described in the bible.
This is a human condition, and Catholics are not exempt from it. But one should not make a decision about the Catholic faith based upon those who depart from it, or do not act in accordance with it. This is like rejecting what Jesus taught, based upon how Judas behaved!
Second, it’s as if many of the above described catholics are completely unaware of the existence of the eastern orthodox churches, and the history of the east/west split.
I think this is quite true. Although I knew about the EO before I came here, I did not understand or study anything until after I encountered EO on CAF. This alone is sufficient reason to support CAF. WE all need to broaden our understanding of our siblings in Christ!
Their criticisms of protestantism can easily be turned around on their own religion.
Well, don’t hesitate to do it! I think this is a very valid approach to fundamentalist Catholics.