I understand what the priest is saying. He’s not talking about objective sin. His speaking about subjective culpability. That is actually something that the confessor can’t accurately measure, unless he’s Padre Pio. He has to go with what the penitent says. At the end of the day, when you’re a confessor or a spiritual director, you have to get to subjective culpability. The objective truth about an act is easy to discuss, but the state of the person’s soul is very specific. That’s harder to navigate unless you’re trained in the spiritual life, which most priests are not, since most are secular priests. The get the usual one semester course on Christian Spirituality. If you’re a religious, you get 6 to 10 years of studies in the spiritual life.
Like some teachers, some priests are naturals at this and don’t need a lot of training to work with the soul. It’s a gift that they have. They’re insightful and very analytical.
Even if they don’t know the right philosophical or theological name for something, they can work with it. Not every human being has this gift.
Secular seminaries have never had strong curricula in spiritual theology because their focus has always been on dogmatic theology. It was simply assumed that only religious did spiritual direction and that secular priests simply heard confessions and absolved. In light of the fact that 80% of priests are secular, there is a shortage of priests who are actually trained to do spiritual direction. However, as I said, some are naturally gifted at it, even if they can’t tell one mood from another or explain the soul’s journey into the mind of God.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, FFV