There is a post from FRESHWIND which was cut and pasted in two different threads extolling the Mass experience at a SSPX Chapel, so I feel compelled to counter with my OWN observations.
I too attended Masses there for 6 months. I did not do it out of a desire to separate myself from Rome, but because there were things about the way the Mass was celebrated: the piety and reverence of the Priest, the obvious reverence shown by the congregation, and the closeness of pews to the altar, in other words, the general milieu, which I appreciated.
There were also things I noted which I did not appreciate. Occasionally, they would have “guest” priests who sometimes behaved strangely. One, “stage” whispered and hissed the Conscecration in a theatrical and frightening way, as if he were conjuring and performing black magic. I don’t even know if this priest was of the Pius X Society, but his behavior made me want to run out of the chapel.
There was also an “attitude” toward women which I was the unfortunate recipient of several times. My husband is a mannerly and polite man, and I am accustomed to being treated with a certain amount of courtesy. You won’t find any of that in a SSPX chapel. I’ll list a few examples: It was standing room only in the back, there were several older women standing, and an early
30’s man sitting in the only available folding chair, he would not get up and offer his seat. There was a young woman standing AND holding a baby, and what appeared to be her husband (the man she was with) sitting in the folding chair next to her. The usher stepped on my foot, squarely, I winced, he did not even look at me. Men would try to beat me out the door, stand on the walk-way outside and block it, and not move except for my husband. I once asked if the priest was in the confessional and the man I queried completely ignored me. One time I went to Communion and a man at the other end of my pew got up to go to Communion just as I had reentered the pew. This made it necessary for me to exit the pew again, although he had been sitting at the opposite end (why didn’t he just exit the pew at his end), and he clearly delayed going to Communion (why didn’t he go to Communion until I returned). This man seemed to have a real problem with me and my husband, for some reason, and it seemed like his only intention was to inconvenience me with this behavior.
Unfortunately, in the course of the 6 months there was a reassignment of priests. The new priest was very young, maybe around 25-26. He was only ordained for a year. During the first Mass he said, he gave a 40 minute homily about himself. It only got worse. At one point, I found it necessary to contact him about his plans to have a Mass in the local park. I did not agree with this plan. There is a rule that this is only to be done in times of necessity. There were some other issues I brought up with him as well; mostly mundane things like kids running all over the parking lot when people were pulling out, keeping the first Mass people singing songs in the parking lot so second Mass people had nowhere to park, telling people he had an annoucement to make after Mass, corraling everyone into the parking lot, and then not making an announcement (we were then stuck in traffic from a football game after that fiasco), and it ended up taking 3 hours and 40 minutes round trip for Mass. Drive time is 35 minutes each way.
When I contacted him, he told me repeatedly that I was ‘bordering on disrespectful… I didn’t know my place…I wasn’t being humble…and he disparaged my husband for putting up with me.’ Yes, a 26 year old actually said the words, “You don’t know your place.” The entire time I was trying to tell him why I called, he talked right along with me and never listened to a single thing I said. My husband called him and got close to the same treatment.
We are old enough to be this man’s parents. We never said anything even remotely disrespectful or out of line to this priest whatsoever. Just the mere fact that we would dare to disagree with him was “disrespect.”
This group doesn’t want to bo back to 1969. They want to go back to the Ming Dynasty in China.
This just goes to show you that whatever problems you believe to exist in the Chuch are not necessarily going to be resolved in “Tradition.” There are good priests and not so good priests in both. Some problems might be resolved, but a whole other set of problems could easily appear, ones you never even anticipated.
The main thing, you owe unfailing allegiance to the Pope. What the Pope says goes.
Your soul hangs in the balance.
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