First of all, the OP is considering conversion to the Faith and asked about books that would be most helpful to him in that process, so your whole post is hardly on topic. This isn’t about why one rite of the Mass is better than the other. Second, all of, you’ve strung a lot of stuff together out of context. I agree that there is something wrong with our liturgy, as it is offered. I do not believe that there is something
inherently wrong with our liturgy and Cardinal Ratzinger does not necessarily seem to imply that, either. Apparently, he has high hopes and aspriations for the OF, as can be seen in his cover letter accompanying Summorum Pontificum, where he speaks of it having “spiritual richness and theological depth.”
vatican.va/holy_father/benedict_xvi/letters/2007/documents/hf_ben-xvi_let_20070707_lettera-vescovi_en.html.
Further, I never said any site should be avoided because it’s “trad” (I never used the word “trad”). I said (and will say again) that certain sites should be avoided because they don’t speak the mind of the Church. And the term “traditional” doesn’t give anyone a free pass to subvert the truth. You seem to imply that “traditionalists” can come to this forum and post anything they want without being challenged. No, if they post stuff that is contrary to the mind of the Church (or links), then they SHOULD be challenged. If a someone said to me, “I’m interested in converting to Catholicism,” then in reason, I’m not going to say, “Well, let me trot you down to the SSPX chapel and you can hear how the Mass of the Church as celebrated by the Holy Father and the last few popes is an abomination.” I’m going to point him to material that thinks with the mind of the Church, which is what we’re all called to do. In fairness, I would also caution him against a lot of what goes on in some RCIA programs (I’ve been a sponsor and seen it). Whether one falls out of the boat on the left side or the right side, however, one has still fallen out of the boat.
Of course, I do NOT think the Holy See has been infiltrated and that we’re doomed. In fact, the only times I’ve seen that asserted has been by…hmm…by “traditionalists.”