I was a youth minister for about a year in California, and it seemed to be that the high schoolers need a deeper understanding of the truth in two main areas. 1. Confession - They are tortured by their sinsā¦even if they pretend they are no big deal. They want to know what is right and what is wrong, and theyāre tired of people saying that a mortal sin is kind of a gray area. Teach them the truth about mortal sin and donāt hesitate to explain that people really go to Hell. Then, and only then, teach them about Godās beautiful mercy in the sacrament of Confession, and show them intellectually (not emotionally) through Scripture and Tradition that it is the absolute truth.
If they tell you that if someone is a really good person and makes one mistake (even if it fulfills all three conditions for a mortal sin) that surely they will not go to hell, then it might be good to use the following analogy I learned from Scott Hahn.
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There was once a person who was in incredible shape. Every day he ran the stairs of the Eiffel Tower at least 50 times. He ate right, exercised, got enough sleep, had friends, kept his mind in good condition - he was just in really good health. One day, though, he ran to the top of the Eiffel Tower and was still doing everything he could to stay healthy, but he jumped off the building. What do you think happened? He died. Are you sure he died, though? He only made one mistake... Ah...but some mistakes are grave. This was a physical example, but the same thing applies to the spiritual life.
So once again - teach them about confession. They will never be able to truly understand Godās mercy if they do not understand His justice.
- Theology of the Body (For obvious reasons. This might be taught more in a morality class, though, so maybe another teacher is covering it, but itās still fun and very good to add in.)
Iām sorry this was so longā¦I hope it helps!
May God bless you for your beautiful work, and may Mary keep you close in her heart.