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Christos
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First of all that would be wrong in the case of the husband, he is should not simply divorce her beacuse he thinks he is not good enough for her material needs. (I actually misunderstood it the first time, I thought you meant that the woman left the man. I apologize). He should continue to work his hardest to give the wife what she needs. He should speak to the wife about their issues (obviously this should be done in marriage) and if she is of the opinion that she is content with what she has, why should the man worry, but he should still try his hardest to give her more than what she is currently content with. (Its called gifts). However, if she thinks that this is not enough and demands more from him, what is the man to do. If he still loves her, and she is too selfish to realise that he is trying his hardest, and then they part, then it continues with my previous post. I hope you are content with this answer.The man can actully divorce the woman eventhough they still love each other because he feels that he is not good enough for her to give her what she needs in matter of material needs. He has given much effort to try to get enough income, but he eventually fails several times. So let’s assume that they finally split at ur so called 3rd divorce. It;s only ur assumstion that this woman should be already with ]someone else, and it’s case base. This woman might think that she needs time to get married with someone else And when her previous husband become successful, do you think that this woman should marry another man first to be able to get marry to the prev husband? .Obviously this case will make her impossible to get reconciliation with her prev husband because on what base that this marriage can be accepted when she obviously has to lie to another man about the reason of marrying, because she is to divorce him later on, to get married with the prev husband? Ridiculous!
Can you show me where that teaching is please. I’m interested in a reference not just a statement. Thanks.And why is it impossible that they finally want to get back together?
It’s ur islamic teaching that a marriage can be invalid if a husband can;t give a wife his income to support her by at least 3 or perhaps 6 months?
I don’t have the eagerness to discuss the women problems in Islam. Btw I am a woman, I can see clearly as it’s about women that ur religion don’t treat me the same as man 'cos we have discussed it toooo many times here. Never muslim ever convinced me that u’re just . Btw I live in Indonesia, I can see many women were victims of men here because they have to accept the will of their husband of marrying another women. If they stay they will suffer, if they want to get divorce they will loose some rights and be ridiculed.
And about those women converted…poor souls! Indeed some people were gullible.
Also, remember that because a person does something doesnt mean a religion alows it. I know of the perversion some people in the Muslim countries have done, in keeping their woman under-educated, and taking away their rights that Islam has given them, but Islam has given them the rights.
Furthermore, your bible has taken away your rights to speak in the church
I Corinthians 14: 34-35
Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law.
And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.
Wow, it is a SHAME for women to speak in the church.
More places in the Bible where women are inferior.
Ecclesiasticus 25:19-24 (Catholic Bible)
All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman: let the portion of a sinner fall upon her.
As the climbing up a sandy way is to the feet of the aged, so is a wife full of words to a quiet man.
Stumble not at the beauty of a woman, and desire her not for pleasure.
A woman, if she maintain her husband, is full of anger, impudence, and much reproach.
A wicked woman abateth the courage, maketh an heavy countenance and a wounded heart: a woman that will not comfort her husband in distress maketh weak hands and feeble knees.
Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die.
Here it tells how a woman would never treat her husband fairly if she were to be the authorative one. If she was authorative, she is full of anger, impudence and much reproach. She will not comfort her husband when he in distress but would make him weaker. Ending with, with woman came sin and because of her we all die. How much respect the Bible, thus Christianity has for women I can see with my own eyes.
I Timothy 2:9-14
In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.
Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
First point, it tells woman to dress modestly, just as Islam does. However, Islam does not tell the women, do not teach, or learn in silence with all subjection. If women have questions regarding somethings when learning she has the right to ask.