Question on marital embrace

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Hubby came back from his 2nd work trip. He was away for 1 night. Last night when we were intimate he did something he had never done. I asked him where he learned that since he had never done it and he said he just thought of it then. Im worried, he never triea new things. Should i be worried? He has only been away twice for work one 2 years ago and this time. I don’t know if i should be worried. where would a guy come up with some new move? or am i just being paranoid?
 
Oh, Hon, I think it’s okay. 😃

I’m not a professional or anything, but I think those pregnancy hormones might be going crazy in your system. I don’t think you have anything to worry about; maybe he was just trying something new because he was feeling a little playful.

Have you been married long? Your profile says you’re 24, so I assume you haven’t been married for a very long time. My husband and I took a few years of being married, before we really got playful (you know, at first, we were just trying to get the basics down :o, since sexual intimacy was all so new to us).

Maybe let him know that the new surprise was good (or bad, if you didn’t like it much). You gotta try new things once in awhile, and as long as they’re morally sound, you’re okay! 👍
 
Maybe he just had a lot of time to think about you on his trip…:rolleyes: I wouldn’t worry if I were you…:hug1:
 
If you are pregnant for the first time that is a new and unfamiliar situation, even if you have been married for a while. He may have asked a friend or looked up ideas on the Internet.

I would just be pleased that he is at least trying to make you happy / comfortable in a new situation.
 
haven’t been married for long, only 2 years. I don’t know if he’d get it from the internet, he never uses the computer. he never talks to his friends about stuff like this, he likes to keep our sex life private, and i’m thankful he does =) maybe he was just being playful. i was thinking the worst -->infidelity. would that be hormonal? i have never doubted him but that was just weird. it felt good but i was confused
 
foxc1 said:
maybe he was just being playful. i was thinking the worst -->infidelity. would that be hormonal? i have never doubted him but that was just weird. it felt good but i was confused
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Totally hormonal is my vote! 😉 For example, I never have dreams about my husband dying, but when I’m pregnant, the widow dreams bombard me in the first few months (and it’s always something like cancer or a car crash).

I think the hormones manifest themselves in lots of different ways, and this is just one of them. Those hormones are crazy things, aren’t they?
 
foxc1 said:
Hubby came back from his 2nd work trip. He was away for 1 night. Last night when we were intimate he did something he had never done. I asked him where he learned that since he had never done it and he said he just thought of it then. Im worried, he never triea new things. Should i be worried? He has only been away twice for work one 2 years ago and this time. I don’t know if i should be worried. where would a guy come up with some new move? or am i just being paranoid?
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To be honest he probably just got really [crazed with desire] while he was away and started dreaming up things he’d like to do to you, and then he tried it out when you were together again!

I’m sure when I get back from Basic in June my wife is probably going to wonder just what exactly they teach in the military!

😃
 
Remember last year, you had a few doubts then. Take a breath and give him a hug.
 
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To be honest he probably just got really [crazed with desire] while he was away and started dreaming up things he’d like to do to you, and then he tried it out when you were together again!

I’m sure when I get back from Basic in June my wife is probably going to wonder just what exactly they teach in the military!

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foxc1 said:
Hubby came back from his 2nd work trip. He was away for 1 night. Last night when we were intimate he did something he had never done. I asked him where he learned that since he had never done it and he said he just thought of it then. Im worried, he never triea new things. Should i be worried? He has only been away twice for work one 2 years ago and this time. I don’t know if i should be worried. where would a guy come up with some new move? or am i just being paranoid?
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I think you are totally fine. DH and I never do new things, until on the fly I thought of something new and…well it was well recieved, and he was asking where I had heard about it, and I honestly hadn’t. We’re just getting more experience at this thing called LOVE! 😉
 
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