- I live part of the year in one city, and part of the year in another, though both are in the same diocese (I am a university student.) With which parish should I register?
- Does a Newman Center count as a parish?
- If the nearest parish church is an ethnic parish, is that my parish, or may I register in the slightly-farther English-speaking parish?
like retirees who spend part of the year in a southern state, you register in the parish where you reside permanently, and attend Mass at any other parish near your part-time residence. Most Newman Centers are not actual parishes, in that they hold Mass regularly, and may be assigned a chaplain but he is usually not a pastor, and sacraments of initiation are not celebrated and recorded there. But yes that is the usual option for those living on a college campus. Our local public college has a Catholic campus ministry center with Mass, bible study and other services, and also holds RCIA and confirmation classes, but those candidates are received into the Church through the “regular” parish in which the school is located, by arrangement with that pastor, and the sacraments are recorded in his parish records.
Any Catholic can fulfill his Mass obligation and receive sacraments at any Catholic parish of any rite, whether it is a territorial (geographical) parish, or jurisdictional parish (such as an “ethnic” parish). There are places where the pastor of the “ethnic” parish may expect those registering in his parish to belong to that group, especially if they expect to enroll children in the school or RE, but that is becoming rarer. It was typical when we raised our kids in the Cleveland diocese, for instance, to be surrounded by an Italian, Hungarian, Slovenian, and Lithuanian parish, each with its own school, but to be told we had to register in the “regular” parish since we did not belong to any of those groups.
When you receive sacraments it is the duty of the pastor to notify your baptismal parish of that fact, as they are all recorded in the baptismal register of that parish. When you ask for marriage, first communion, confirmation, ordination, (or religious profession, even though it is not a sacrament) you will be asked to provide a recent (issued within 6 months) record of your baptism from your baptismal parish, listing alls sacraments received, for the obvious reason of making sure have not already received them. If you don’t know how to contact them, ask the parish secretary of the new parish, she can help you find the information on line, and ask the record be sent directly to the pastor or RE director. It is always wise on general principles to keep important records, not only birth certificate, but sacramental certificates, marriage documents etc. I have found parishes in the Phillipines and in Mexico to be excellent in maintaining and providing sacramental records, the problem usually arises when the individual does not know exactly where he was baptised.