Questions Re: Other Religions from Sons

  • Thread starter Thread starter betsyinfl
  • Start date Start date
Status
Not open for further replies.
B

betsyinfl

Guest
First I will apologize for how long this post is. My 21 year old is at a college w/a lot of Baptists. He also has a lot of friends of different religions, although he also has a good number of friends who are Catholic. We often get into discussions, some of them heated regarding the Catholic faith. My son states that he would never leave our faith, but he does not understand why we do not call ourselves Christian(s) more, including in our profession of faith. I have told him numerous times that all other christian religions were born out of the Catholic faith. This was done primarily because King James wanted to divorce, hence the “King James” version of the bible. My fear is that my son is getting misinformation from college/friends regarding our faith. I would be crushed if either of my sons left the Church. I do not waiver on where I stand. However, I also know of friends of my own that I went to school with that had parents who were so overbearing that they left the Church never to return. I do not want this for my children. I also do not want to bash another religion, I do not think that is appropriate. Please help me with suggestions on how to get through to them the next time this occurs. This is usually after we have gone to Mass when they are home from school. My son enjoys our parish priest (we have recently moved and now belong to a new parish). He says that he likes that the priest talks about the scripture specifically in relation to what is going on today.
 
Stop engaging in the the facts of what the Catholic Church “does wrong” in his eyes. It’s a battle that you will never win.

What you need to do is investigate what religion that he’s now facinated with and find how it stems in the real, literall things. Statement of faith=creed. etc. Read the Bible more and really know scripture. Get a Concordia of the Bible and Scott’s Hahn’s “Understanding the Scripture” text and Carson Weber’s podcast study on it. Alliteratively “A father who keeps his promises” is an excellent Hahn book.

Quite frankly, the KJV is a superior translation to the NAB and other “catholic” versions of the Bible. It’s lacking the deuro-cannonical, but it just flows better and uses language better. New Jerusalem is a good translation with clearer pictures of what was really said and the Douey Reims Bible is excellent, but often hard to find.
 
First I will apologize for how long this post is. My 21 year old is at a college w/a lot of Baptists. He also has a lot of friends of different religions, although he also has a good number of friends who are Catholic. We often get into discussions, some of them heated regarding the Catholic faith. My son states that he would never leave our faith, but he does not understand why we do not call ourselves Christian(s) more, including in our profession of faith. I have told him numerous times that all other christian religions were born out of the Catholic faith. This was done primarily because King James wanted to divorce, hence the “King James” version of the bible. My fear is that my son is getting misinformation from college/friends regarding our faith. I would be crushed if either of my sons left the Church. I do not waiver on where I stand. However, I also know of friends of my own that I went to school with that had parents who were so overbearing that they left the Church never to return. I do not want this for my children. I also do not want to bash another religion, I do not think that is appropriate. Please help me with suggestions on how to get through to them the next time this occurs. This is usually after we have gone to Mass when they are home from school. My son enjoys our parish priest (we have recently moved and now belong to a new parish). He says that he likes that the priest talks about the scripture specifically in relation to what is going on today.
That’s kind of funny that he mentions the Creed - because some of the denominations say the same creed and they also use the term “catholic,” because it means universal. So in reality, they are accepting that our Church IS the universal Church.

Time to get some books on apologetics and early Church history! 🙂
 
I have told him numerous times that all other christian religions were born out of the Catholic faith.
👍
This was done primarily because King James wanted to divorce, hence the “King James” version of the bible.
:dts:
Nope. I would imagine what you are referring to here is King Henry VIII, who divorced Catherine of Aragon. She married Henry VIII in 1509 but by 1525 Henry was infatuated with his mistress Anne Boleyn and dissatisfied that his marriage to Catherine had produced no surviving sons, leaving their daughter, the future Mary I of England, as heiress presumptive at a time when there was no established precedent for a woman on the throne. He sought to have their marriage annulled, setting in motion a chain of events that led to England’s break with the Roman Catholic Church. When Pope Clement VII refused to annul the marriage, Henry defied him by assuming supremacy over religious matters. In 1533 their marriage was declared invalid and Henry married Anne on the judgement of clergy in England, without reference to the Pope. Catherine refused to accept Henry as Supreme Head of the Church of England and considered herself the King’s rightful wife and Queen, attracting much popular sympathy. Despite this, she was acknowledged only as Dowager Princess of Wales by Henry. After being banished from court, she lived out the remainder of her life at Kimbolton Castle, and died there on 7 January 1536. Catherine’s English subjects held her in high esteem, thus her death set off tremendous mourning among the English people.

The beginning of the Protestant Reformation is most often attributed to an Augustinian Monk called Martin Luther who lived in Germany. On 31 October 1517, Luther wrote to his bishop, Albert of Mainz, protesting the sale of indulgences. He enclosed in his letter a copy of his “Disputation of Martin Luther on the Power and Efficacy of Indulgences,” which came to be known as The Ninety-Five Theses. On 15 June 1520, the Pope warned Luther with the papal bull (edict) Exsurge Domine that he risked excommunication unless he recanted 41 sentences drawn from his writings, including the 95 Theses, within 60 days. Obviously there’s much more to it than that, but that’s a brief, basic outline.
My fear is that my son is getting misinformation from college/friends regarding our faith. I would be crushed if either of my sons left the Church. I do not waiver on where I stand. However, I also know of friends of my own that I went to school with that had parents who were so overbearing that they left the Church never to return. I do not want this for my children. I also do not want to bash another religion, I do not think that is appropriate. Please help me with suggestions on how to get through to them the next time this occurs. This is usually after we have gone to Mass when they are home from school. My son enjoys our parish priest (we have recently moved and now belong to a new parish). He says that he likes that the priest talks about the scripture specifically in relation to what is going on today.
I think first of all, get your facts straight. If you tell him something that his friends can prove is error, like the above, he’ll wonder what else you got wrong!
 
Suggest that your son start getting involved in the Newmann Center at his college. He needs to get involved with Catholic programs and meet Catholic friends to balance things out.
 
Your son has the opportunity to evangelize others. What he needs are the facts. It is so easy to gather today because of the computer which, I’m sure, he has. I would advise him, if and when he does not know the answer, to tell his friends such and say he’ll get the answer for them, and then do some research.

Get him a copy of CATHOLICISM FOR DUMMIES.

Rent CATHOLICISM. They might have a copy at your church. It is a beautiful three or four disc video on the Church.

You and he should consider watching EWTN. The information is great. It makes one very proud to be a Catholic. My fav is THE JOURNEY HOME. You can also go to Marcus Grodi’s website and read about the conversion of past guests and why they decided to swim the Tiber.

Your son should also be aware that he is being bombarded by friends from various Protestant beliefs. Each has a different spin on things so he needs to know his own religion to answer their questions. And he might remind them that the Catholic Church is over 2000 years old so there’s a lot of info to assimilate. Prostestants have only been here for 600 years.
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Back
Top