The statistics I quoted came from Catholic Apologetics International and were dated 2005, so I didn’t consider them outdated.
It’s kinda freaky that you didn’t even look at the footnotes to see when the actual data came from! Internet users should make a habit of thinking critically about the information they dig up.
As to any debunking of those type of statistics, I expect nothing less form the other side. It has become so politically driven, that EVERY negative study or statistic is attacked without question.
That’s not quite accurate either. I would say that most people’s political positions reflect what they take to be true—so, generally, if someone questions a negative study or statistic, they are doing it because their prior beliefs tell them that something is wrong. Let’s take a couple of your statistics to see this:
One study reports that the average homosexual has between 20 and 106 partners per year (6). The average heterosexual has 8 partners in a lifetime.
The footnote (6) refers to a study published in the
New England Journal of Medicine in 1980. We would expect this statistic, therefore, not to reflect on homosexuals in general, but to tell us about how gay men behaved in the pre-AIDS sexual revolution.
73% of psychiatrists say homosexuals are less happy than the average person, and of those psychiatrists, 70% say that the unhappiness is NOT due to social stigmatization (13)
Follow the footnote to (13): the study quoted was published in 1977, just 4 years after homosexuality was taken out of the DSM. So you would expect attitudes among psychiatrists still to reflect the idea that homosexuality is a pathology. But let’s also think critically about how these psychiatrists could know that “homosexuals are less happy than the average person.” In 1977, most of the gay people these doctors knew of were either living in big city ghetto/slums, or else lying on their couches trying to get their head shrunk. So most of the homosexuals these doctors knew really were less happy than the average person! As for the last bit (that the happiness is not due to social stigmatization), I would just say that the mental health profession has learned a thing or two about this in the last 30 years.
In particular, social stigmatization can lead not only to unhappiness or depression, but also to alcoholism, sexual acting out and/or risk taking, and suicide. Like you said:
- In 1987, 25-33% of homosexuals and lesbians were alcoholics (11)
- In 1989, homosexuals lived unhealthy lifestyles, and had historically accounted for the bulk of syphilis, gonorrhea, Hepatitis B, the “gay bowel syndrome” (which attacks the intestinal tract), tuberculosis and cytomegalovirus (27)
- In 1979, one study reported of homosexuals that 43% admitted to 500 or more partners in a lifetime, 28% admitted to 1000 or more in a lifetime, and of these people, 79% say that half of those partners were total strangers, and 70% of those sexual contacts were one night stands (3).
- In 1982, 78% of homosexuals had been affected by STDs (20)
And finally, both of the following reports come from a 1992 newspaper article, and probably reflect nothing but the opinion of the people quoted.
- Judge John Martaugh, chief magistrate of the New York City Criminal Court has said, “Homosexuals account for half the murders in large cities” (10)
- Captain William Riddle of the Los Angeles Police says, “30,000 sexually abused children in Los Angeles were victims of homosexuals” (10)
So your statistics are more than adequately accounted for by the combined effect of the pre-AIDS sexual revolution and lingering social stigmatization (and a bit of sloppy reporting at the end). They do not necessarily show or even suggest that homosexual relationships are inherently unstable. (I’m not saying you can’t make a case for this. You just can’t do it the way you wanted to.)
At the very end of your post you say:
Further as Roman Catholics, it is our duty is to defend and promote the teachings of the Church, who CAN NOT ERR in matters of faith or morals. So if you are truly Catholic (not the cafeteria variety) you understand that morally same sex unions are wrong, and on that basis Catholics are obligated to stand for the sanctity of marriage with our votes and our voice.
We totally agree on this. I just don’t think the teachings of the Church are well defended by spreading dubious interpretations of outdated information. In principle, the issue of gay “marriage” is a purely moral question and the kind of statistics you hit us with would have been irrelevant if they hadn’t been so misleading.
Peace