Stay-at-Home Catholic Dad of 3… is me! (and proud to be)
What he is saying is abuse and not in concurrance with the General Instruction of the Roman Missal (GIRM)
You can find the GIRM and even download a Pdf version for free from the USCCB website
usccb.org/liturgy/current/revmissalisromanien.shtml
Here is what the GIRM says… very specific too.
161. If Communion is given only under the species of bread, the priest raises the host slightly
and shows it to each, saying, **Corpus Christi (The Body of Christ). **The communicant replies,
Amen, and receives the Sacrament either on the tongue or, where this is allowed and if the
communicant so chooses, in the hand. As soon as the communicant receives the host, he or she
consumes it entirely.
286. If Communion of the Blood of Christ is carried out by communicants’ drinking from the chalice, each communicant, after receiving the Body of Christ, moves and stands facing the minister of the chalice. The minister says, **Sanguis Christi (The Blood of Christ), **the communicant responds, Amen, and the minister hands over the chalice, which the communicant raises to his or her mouth. Each communicant drinks a little from the chalice, hands it back to the minister, and then withdraws; the minister wipes the rim of the chalice with the purificator.
Hope this helps.
Paul