Is there a heterosexual version of the flag?
Yes. It’s the same flag, but the stripes are alternating black and white. And it is often used by people who are not, well, nice.
It’s a fine line we must walk between inclusion of those struggling with sexual issues, and maintaining fidelity to Christian sexual ethics.
My view is that people struggling with sexual issues are sinners just as we all are. Some have sexual issues. Others cheat on their taxes, lie, do drugs or drink excessively, etc.
And I will bet dollars-to-donuts that many that do lie, cheat on their taxes, do drugs or drink too much continue to do so and still go up for the Eucharist. It’s not up to us to say who is in a state of grace or not. Only God, the penitent and his or her confessor knows. For all we know the active gay man or woman (or the tax cheat etc.) has just been to the confessional and sincerely confessed with a firm purpose of amendment, but as with many habitual sins, repeatedly falls. It really behooves us to work out our own salvation with trembling and fear rather than that of our pew-mates.
One presumes if an LGBQT person is sincerely in church seeking God, and seeking a better way to live, we should bend over backwards to welcome him or her, just as we would welcome a tax cheat, drunk, addict or ex-con coming to church to try and find a better way to live.
Certainly when I see so many of the clergy, including princes of the Church, having difficulty practicing what they preach, perhaps it would help to de-emphasize a certain class of sinner (sexual ones) and remind everyone that we are
all sinners who fall short of the Glory of God.
With all that said… as something of a good liturgy fan, the liturgy is the place to be
welcoming to sinners. But not the place to be
provocative.