Rambling sorta sad

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maybe i am feeling sorry for myself and need to grow up

my DH (and yes i love him to pieces)
has gotten distant

he barely looks at me most of the time but that said

he is very sweet in between his “times” i maybe am being too harsh.

anyway i am sure he is faithful but i am getting sad cause he watches really depressing cop shows and the news and when i try to put on something else he leaves-makes me want to go online and find people who WILL talk to me and care what i say…

he is struggling with kicking an addiction, (i should be doing the same) maybe i shouldnt complain cause i amproud of him for that

yep i am feeling a bit sad but it will get better i know it will
 
OH GOLLY - listen, kicking an addiction can be very tough on the old personality. If he is trying to quit smoking, for instance, he may be vacilating between wanting to have a cigaret and wanting to blow up the car in the driveway. Have a lot of patience on this one…deepen the prayer life, stay positive, treat him like he has a really tough case of the flu and hang in there…and if it is a tougher addiction, and you want to PM me, please feel free.

I have been sober since May 4, 1992. I quit smoking for 11 yrs then started again when someone I loved died then stopped again and am, starting today, begining the 12 step work on over eating…I’m going to be so darn healthy no one will be able to stand me at which point I will be posting on here about being lonely so…:whacky:

Hang in there, my sister. You are going to be ok.
 
:hug1: Aww Sammi, don’t feel bad for feeling the way you do. It’s hard when spouses are down (I know when my DH is feeling blue it makes me feel the same way - and the same for him)

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he is struggling with kicking an addiction, (i should be doing the same) maybe i shouldnt complain cause i amproud of him for that
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Perhaps this is just heavily on his mind and he is having a hard time getting through this. (if it’s smoking I can DEFINITELY relate!)

Have you tried talking or writing a letter to your DH, letting him know how you feel? Maybe he doesn’t realize how sad this is making you…

You both are in my prayers.
 
thanks for all the advice-it is true i need more patience and I also need to leave him be

(i need to be ‘let be’ alot of the time as well!)

re: cop shows etc. it is true i can go in another room and/or read

i was kind of feeling bigtime sorry for myself when i posted as well and i realize that now
 
i am afraid i was too personal in thisthread and dont feel comfortable with what i posted can it please be deleted?
thank you
 
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