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Would you consider it inappropriate for a man to share a bed with his twelve year old daughter? And I mean like habitually, not just on camping trips or whatever.
 
Absolutely. This shouldn’t happen. It’s a matter for considerable concern
 
In most states it legally speaking any teenager or child that is old enough to be going through puberty must have their own room in order for a parent/foster parent to be keeping custody. I would think keeping this in mind that this is extremely inappropriate behavior. Although it might not mean there is anything of a sexual nature going on but I do truly believe that a child of that age needs to start learning physical boundaries or she will have a hard time displaying those same boundaries while dating.

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I agree with the others. The situation you describe is completely inappropriate. :nope:
 
Yes, that is completely inappropriate.

I am confused, so just imagine what the girl is thinking.🤷
 
Inappropriate on a regular basis. Inappropriate in most cases on a once-in-a-while basis but I could think of extreme circumstances that may warrant a very rare once-in-a-while basis being ok.
 
apromisemade said:
Would you consider it inappropriate for a man to share a bed with his twelve year old daughter? And I mean like habitually, not just on camping trips or whatever.
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Just the two of them? Yes, that would be weird.

As a foster parent, I would never do this. No protection against an accusation. Why would he do such a thing?
 
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Just the two of them? Yes, that would be weird.

As a foster parent, I would never do this. No protection against an accusation. Why would he do such a thing?
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When we were foster parents, the guidance they gave us was for the opposite sex parent never to be in the child’s bedroom without a witness. Now that seemed a bit extreme, if I was say, putting away laundry or something, but still understandable.
 
Very much so, inappropriate, wrong, confusing too boot for the poor girl.

My father was very attached in an unhealthy way (thought not sexual) to my younger sister. They would often curl up together and sleep LONG past the age when it’s appropriate, even into her adulthood.

They have a very disordered relationship to this day I think because my sister can’t detach from my father enough to have her own relationships with men. She’s had a very promiscuous and disordered life. And, even though she has been in a long term relationship with one man now, and has a child with him too, my dad always comes first. He doesn’t like this guy, so she won’t marry him. What my dad says always trumps with her BF says even in regards to child rearing.

I’m rambling and I know this is just my sister’s experience BUT I think it’s a result of my sis and dad being close in a way that is not properly ordered for father/daughter. Just my:twocents:
 
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