Karin5,
You’ve asked a somewhat complex question in the middle of a rather heated discussion but I will try to answer you as well and sucinctly as I can.
I have never experienced the Latin mass. Can someone who has explain why it is better than what you call NO?
The Traditional Latin Mass (TLM) is the Mass that was used for centuries before the advent of Vatican II and the changes that followed on that. The Mass was said in Latin and was virtually identical throughout the world. These facts alone create a strong attraction. One could go to church anywhere in the world and know what was happening.
The other thing about the TLM is that there is a reverence about it that many find uplifting. The language, the music, the “smells and bells” all add to this “otherworldly” tone that lifts one out of the hum drum world.
A word of advise - the TLM is not for “sissies”

. It is generally longer than the N.O. and there is more kneeling. Once you kneel after the Sanctus, you stay down until after communion.
As for the N.O. (Novus Ordo), if properly executed it is also beautiful and uplifting. However there is a lot of room for variation and thus confusion not just between countries but between diocese. I think that the N.O. gets a bad wrap from some because it is a very visible sign of deeper problems within the Church.
Are the translations of certain prayers from the Latin not accurate? I have ben to mass in Italy and France where I could not understand everything being said. How does one understand the mass if it is in Latin?
You have hit the nail on the head here. When one goes to another country how does one follow the Mass? Years ago you could buy one missal and take it anywhere.
There are differences in the Prayers, basically there are fewer in the N.O. than in the TLM. Also there are variations available to be used. As for the accuracies of the translations I cannot say although I understand that there are issues with some of the translations.
As for understanding the Latin Mass, you can look on the internet for websites that walk you through the TLM, the prayers used etc. In addition most churches that offer the TLM will have prayerbooks available for those who don’t have a missal. These will all have the Latin on one side and the English on the other. Following along is not difficult once you’ve been exposed a couple of times.
I can tell that many of you feel very strongly about this, and I would love to understand better. thanks!
I hope you’ll take a look at the TLM yourself and judge it on it’s own merits. If you are like most you’ll find that you like it - Not to the excusion of the N.O. but certainly on par with it.
James