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jmcrae
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This is an excellent point. Without the permission of the pastor in whose parish you reside, any Sacraments administered would not be licit.The first thing you need to understand (to address your question) is that Catholic parishes are territories. That means that one is a member of the parish where one actually lives.
That’s why participating in RCIA in a parish other than your actual parish can present certain issues and potential problems. Before doing this, you need to speak with one pastor or the other (not RCIA director, or anyone else, but the pastor). I would suggest starting with the pastor of the parish where you are considering participating in RCIA----the reason being that it is better not to be in a situation where you say to one priest “I don’t want to be part of your RCIA program…” only to have to come back later if the other priest says “no.”
People who do not understand what they are writing about will tell you “it doesn’t matter.” It does matter. Parishes are territories and the pastor’s ability to administer the Sacraments of Initiation (especially to adults) depend upon whether or not someone lives in that parish. While an exception to this might very well be possible, the only person who can tell you this is the pastor of that parish—no one on the internet can answer on his behalf.