Good evening. I am in the process of undergoing the RCIA process at our church. I have been in the program for about a month now. There does not seem to be a beginning middle or end to these classes. I feel as if I have come in in the middle of a movie. Lost. I have voiced my concerns to the Deacon that is teaching, and his response is"of course you feel lost".
My question is as a baptized former baptist, would it be considered out of bounds to approach my Father with my desire to forgo the remainder of RCIA and just joining the church? I don’t feel this process was meant to confuse. I think the original purpose was to inform and educate. It just seems like converts are made to jump through considerable hoops to be a member of the community.
Thank you in advance for your answers.
The only realistic alternative is for you to study the Faith on your own or under the direct supervision of somebody else (consider it homeschool versus institutional school). Depending upon how your RCIA program is run, frustration may be an absolutely legitimate issue, so I am not trying to discount what you’re saying.
There are a whole lot of hoops to jump through. You are right. But there is a very, very good reason for these hoops. If you take a look at the early history of the Church, in the immediate post-Apostolic time up through the fourth century, you can examine the amount of pressures that were placed on Catholics. Potentially, the only worse thing than dying as a pagan would be dying as an apostate.
There are a huge number of differences between what Baptists believe and what Catholics believe. I don’t know where you were as a Baptist, so I’m not saying that these were
your beliefs, but those differences exist. Two examples:
- Ecclesiology: The way it’s been explained to me, a fundamental tenet of Baptist ecclesiology is that each individual assembly is to be totally self-governing, The pastor is hired by the assembly and can be fired by the assembly at any time. This has a huge impact not only with the organization, but with doctrine, as well. Catholics, on the other hand, have a top down structure. That is a profound difference…
- Sacraments: I have never in my life met a Baptist who believed that the sacraments actually did anything to impart grace. Including Baptism. (If I am not mistaken, in fact, Baptism and Communion are not even called “sacraments” by Baptists, they are called “Ordinances”). Catholics, on the other hand, believe that the ordinary way that the ordinary way that God imparts actual grace is through the sacraments. That is a big, huge, monstrous difference.
And, of course, there are other differences, as well, particularly when talking about the Communion of Saints.
Frankly, it would do you a major disservice to be received into the Church if you don’t understand and fully subscribe to the the teachings of the Church. I’m not saying whether you do or not…an Internet message board is not the place to do that either way. The point is that the program of instruction is there is a lot to wrap your arms around before you make, in public, the personal statement that you believe all of what the Church teaches.