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Hi Susan.Here is how I would respond to this:
I don’t know that there was a certain numerical age set for baptism. In Jewish households in the first century girls became responsible for repentance at the age of 12 and boys at 13. Judaism does not have “Original Sin.” They believe babies are born innocent. I don’t know if ages 12 and 13 were used for baptism in the beginning or not.
I do know that every example of a baptism in the Bible involves a consenting individual who believed and repented. I am not aware of a time when baptism was commanded or described without belief and repentance. Acts 8:12 makes no mention of children, but only adult men and women. Were there no children in this town? Were only childless people believing? Acts 8:12 - But when they believed Philip as he proclaimed the good news of the kingdom of God and the name of Jesus Christ, they were baptized, both men and women.
There are 5 mentions of household baptisms in the Bible. The only one of these that mentions that all in the household were baptized, also states that the whole household believed.
Acts 16:31 - They replied, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved—you and your household.” 32 Then they spoke the word of the Lord to him and to all the others in his house. 33 At that hour of the night the jailer took them and washed their wounds; then immediately he and all his household were baptized. 34 The jailer brought them into his house and set a meal before them; he was filled with joy because he had come to believe in God—he and his whole household.
Was the entire household old enough to believe and be accountable for repentance? Or did the “all” and “whole” just mean those members of the large extended family household old enough to believe and repent? Either way we do not see a mention of those unable to believe being baptized. (If I said that everyone in my neighborhood voted on election day, would you think that even the infants and toddlers voted? Or would you realize I meant everyone of legal voting age in my neighborhood voted?)
Acts 10:44-47 mentions people in Cornelius’ household who were filled with the Holy Spirit and speaking in tongues receiving baptism. This does not mention if infants and toddlers who were not speaking in tongues were baptized as well.
Lydia was baptized with members of her household Acts 16:15 - When she and the members of her household were baptized…
It doesn’t mention if everybody in her household was baptized or if her household included young children.
Acts 18:8 - Crispus, the synagogue leader, and his entire household believed in the Lord; and many of the Corinthians who heard Paul believed and were baptized.
1 Corinthians 1:16 - (Yes, I also baptized the household of Stephanas; beyond that, I don’t remember if I baptized anyone else.)
These verses don’t reveal what ages were baptized and whether it was every single body in the house or not.
So, there is evidence in Acts 8 that in Samaria only men and women were being baptized. In Acts there were 2 examples where the “whole household” and “entire household” believed in Jesus - in one of these households “all” were baptized. We don’t know if this means that all were old enough to believe, or if it means that all in the household who were old enough believed.
Does the Bible say to not baptize an infant? No. But if we baptize someone who does not profess belief and repent of their sinful ways, are we really following Biblical teaching? Matthew 28:19 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, This says to baptize disciples, not to baptize people so later they can become disciples.Acts 2:38 Peter replied, “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. This does not say repent AND/OR be baptized. It does not say become baptized now and repent when you are 7 or 13. If we try to separate repentance of our sinful ways from the actual baptism, we are changing what the Bible teaches us about baptism.
Should we vaccinate our kids or wait until they hit a certain age and can prove to us that they understand it?
I use such a analogy because that’s sort of what sacraments are - spiritual vaccines.
Blessings to you.