Real Love

[Abisko]

Weren’t you always unlucky with the opposite sex, nothings worked out, no dates went well, did not really had a girl or boy go for you but you prayed and God found one that would be amazed by you and she or he was so good to you, too good to be true, it was a miracle, the Holy Spirit answering your prayers and finding the girl or boy of your dreams, a girl or boy so real so much love in her or his heart for you. It was a treasure from God. God answers your prayers and truly does do miracles for us. It’s beautiful too hard to explain it in words.

Real love exists! When you see it grab it, GO for it; don’t miss it so that later you will regret it that you hadn’t done anything sooner or anything at all. There is such a thing as real love as some call it true love, through Jesus Christ we find it, through God it will find us. Amazing what prayer will do when we pray for it and you will see how our Lord makes a miracle for us.

Real love is very important for us, for some of us it’s the most important thing in our life but some miss it, some almost miss it, some find it right away, some find after awhile, some get back together and realize they had it, some are lost and search for it. Some of us go thru many relationships, some of us like someone so much but we never hook up, for some of us it lasts only a few months, some of us loose our virginity with the wrong person and all this because we thought that the person was the one and later we got hurt and realized that it wasn’t real love and we see how things turned out to be that we are so thankful when we have real love with the person we are with forever. It destroys people when they can’t find it, sometimes we are confused and think we have it but go for the wrong ones because we are desperate later finding out that’s not real love. We waste our lives with being with the wrong ones and regretting the things we did with the wrong ones that we wanted to experience with the real love that we are with but it might be too late or we might be in different stages of life that we can’t experience it anymore.

How do we know that we are meant to be and are connected?

You will know that something is always there that connects you. Either by seeing each other at school, emailing each other once in awhile etc. that conversation will always spark up its always going to be there. The interests that both of you will have, it’s the start or continuation of a connection. If you look back at your conversations you will see that something was always there that showed you had an interest, the connection to your real love.

I hope people won’t miss their opportunity to be with their real love connected by Jesus.

Ever thought, felt like there is someone for you and that the person was the one. Over the years you wondered about them and you never did anything because that person was miles away, or with someone else or you were too shy or had no confidence but you always thought about them and prayed that you two could be together. When you met with other girls or boys on dates, hangouts, you thought that “yes” I finally have a prospect which made you forget about the one you always thought of being with but then when you interacted on that date, met and saw others, after awhile you just couldn’t go on even though nothing really was wrong with the person on a date or the person you had prospect for because of that person that you always wanted to be with came back in your thoughts and your feelings and all you saw was them. You just couldn’t go on but didn’t really know what was going on. The mistake was not doing anything about it. Why because of regret later, because of missed opportunity because of wasted time of not enjoying the young years together, because of ending up with the person who would not be really real love, or for the sake of being with someone or for not being with anyone else or for missing of sharing the things together for the first time, or for not being together joined by Jesus as one and not sharing the same faith together. I want people to go for it not to miss it or then later regret it that they hadn’t done anything sooner.

I believe that if we don’t have faith, if we don’t have Jesus in our hearts and aren’t sure we are to be together and that its meant to be then that connection will get lost and will start to grow apart and be further from us. If we believe that we are meant to be, if truly we have Christ in our hearts and feel that he or she is the one for us we will be connected by that faith. The Holy Spirit will feel our faith and will work and have us connected.

I think that we are all connected to each other as long as we have faith in Jesus and in ourselves. The Holy Spirit will connect us, bring us together. Without that faith, the connection is lost that’s why it’s important to have faith in each other that we belong together, God will see that in your hearts and by this we are connected to each other. Our Lord makes magic here, he connects us in ways we can’t imagine or would of thought to be in the place and the time that we are brought together at the present place by having other things that we are doing or being there for something and at the least time expected we are there at the place, the right time connected to be together and begin our journey together forever as one with Jesus in our hearts.

 

[chevalier]

Quite a bit of reflection there. Of course real love exists. As much as I’ve never had it, I can say it does.

In retrospect, I can also say, if I were to p(name removed by moderator)oint the relationships which have been the closest to it, it would have to be friends rather than young ladies I dated or pursued. In some cases there has also been a romantic overtone, although only in one case has it led to a romantic relationship (which failed). I have a couple of regrets about not saying something, not doing anything, at a time where I should or could have. However, there was probably always a reason why I didn’t do something - or even didn’t do anything, even if the reason was that I wasn’t ready. Overall, I doubt I would be in a happy relationship now with any of the ladies, had I done the “right thing”.

The relationship which failed was very much like the connection you describe, with always having something to talk about, with coming back to the closet when some other opportunity popped up, and so on, until a relationship started. However, as much as I thought it was the right one, and I was happy to be with her, in the end it didn’t work out because we couldn’t agree on children (she wasn’t sure if she’d ever want any, plus, had issues with certain aspects of Catholic upbringing… and I wasn’t what she wanted, I guess, anyway). So, close to there, but most probably not there.

The lesson is not to delay things, not to take endless time wondering, not to fall victim of a “grass is greener on the other side” approach, but neither to rush things or overlook red flags or things which don’t look as great as we’d want them to. There’s obviously more to real love than experience, though.

 

[Sierrah]

Many people have lots of love to give but finding the right person is the hard part. I could quite honestly love many types of people my problem is trust. Just when I think they might be for real…bang they disappear. So I guard my heart and don’t give it lightly.

 

[Bataar]

That would be nice to know what that’s like.

 

[kobefire]

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[Abisko]

The lesson is not to delay things, not to take endless time wondering, not to fall victim of a “grass is greener on the other side” approach, but neither to rush things or overlook red flags or things which don’t look as great as we’d want them to. There’s obviously more to real love than experience, though.

Very good point.

 

[outcast]

all that stuff goes out the window when your shy though. you can’t fix shyness. its a f-ing cancer. you just have to suffer through it.