Is there anyone that can tell me where in the Bible, Catechism of the Catholic Church, a Catholic web site or any place I can find that . . . It is not alright for someone that has been Baptised as a Catholic, but marries outside of the Catholic Church to receive the Holy Eucharist?
The Code of Canon Law is really the place to go for this question. It is online at
scborromeo.org/ccc.htm
Here is what the Canon has to say about the effect of baptism:
“Can. 849 … Through baptism men and women are freed from sin, are reborn as children of God, and, configured to Christ by an indelible character, are incorporated into the Church.”
INDELIBLY incorporated into the Church - being capital C, of course that means the Catholic Church. Once a Catholic, always a Catholic. And by continuing (or thinking you can continue) to receive Communion you acknowledge that you are still Catholic, really - what else is Communion about except expressing communion with the Church through its head, Christ?
Having been baptised Catholic, you MUST have the sacraments, including marriage, adminstered BY a Catholic priest or other minister (deacon for example). The exception, in subparagraph 2, is that sometimes the Eucharist, confession and anointing of the Sick (but not marriage) may be administered by ministers of some other denominations.
Paragraph 844 of the 1983 Code of Canon Law puts it this way:
“Can. 844 §1. Catholic ministers administer the sacraments licitly to Catholic members of the Christian faithful alone, who likewise receive them licitly from Catholic ministers alone …”
If the baptised Catholic marries someone of another Christian denomination it gets even more interesting:
“Can. 1124 Without express permission of the competent authority, a marriage is prohibited between two baptized persons of whom one is baptized in the Catholic Church … and the other of whom is enrolled in a Church or ecclesial community not in full communion with the Catholic Church.”
So altogether the marriage your friend has contracted is probably invalid.
The Catechism can be helpful as well - try this:
"1623 According to Latin tradition, the spouses as ministers of Christ’s grace mutually confer upon each other the sacrament of Matrimony
by expressing their consent before the Church. In the tradition of the Eastern Churches, the priests (bishops or presbyters) are witnesses to the mutual consent given by the spouses,124 but for ***the validity of the sacrament their blessing is also necessary.***125 "
My emphases. Again, the ‘marriage’ is invalid, lacking the sacramental blessing of a (Catholic, naturally) priest.
So what is the effect, do you think, of a couple living together and having sex with each other when they are NOT in fact married? That’s what an ‘invalid’ marriage is - no marriage at all. The relationship becomes one of fornication, extra-marital or pre-marital sex. All of which are gravely sinful, that shouldn’t need further explanation.
As for reception of Communion - Canon Law says the following:
"Can. 915 Those who have been excommunicated or interdicted … and others
obstinately persevering in manifest grave sin are not to be admitted to holy communion.
Can. 916 A person who is conscious of grave sin is not to … receive the body of the Lord without previous sacramental confession …"
So having been made aware that the ‘marriage’ is in fact a gravely sinful relationship, a person in this situation now has the duty to both refrain from Communion for the time being, and to repair the situation by getting the marriage VALIDLY blessed. Which can be as simple as twenty minutes in the sacristy with the deacon and one or two other witnesses on a weekday.
There is even an option called ‘radical sanation’ which can be done in the absence of the non-Catholic party to the marriage if they object to even the small effort a validation of the marriage would take.
A long and boring explanation, I know - but I’m soon to be a lawyer (secular, not canon law) so it’s what I’ll be doing for a crust
